03/12/2024
1. We have a tendency to oversimplify & generalize complex situations or people, which can lead to misunderstandings & stereotyping. By recognizing the nuances & individuality within each experience, we can foster greater empathy & understanding.
2. I used to think that our minds were our biggest obstacles but if we take a step back, harmful societal norms are really where it starts. They determine what we ‘should be’ & can act as barriers to authenticity & self-expression, inhibiting personal growth & fulfillment.
3. It’s common to experience conflicting emotions simultaneously, such as joy & sadness. Embracing the complexity of our emotions allows us to navigate these conflicting feelings with compassion & acceptance.
4. No matter what it looks like from the outside, no one has it all figured out. We’re all just working with the information & experience we’ve acquired so far. We’re all living life for the first time.
5. Emotions are natural responses to our experiences, & trying to force them away only amplifies their intensity or stores them for later. We can learn to drop the resistance & move through our emotions.
6. The journey to “find ourselves” can sometimes lead us further away from our true essence, as we chase external validation or societal expectations. True self-discovery involves coming back to the self, exploring our inner landscape with compassionate curiosity & connecting with our values.
7. We all have a voice within us that doubts our abilities and criticizes us at times. This is a part of our internal safety system but when we over identify with our inner critic it can really hold us back in life. By practicing self-compassion, the inner critic has less control.
8. Closure is rarely something we receive from others; rather, it is something we find within ourselves. We can’t control whether or not someone acknowledges how they’ve hurt us & even if they do our feelings don’t necessarily resolve. Accepting & feeling our emotions is what processes them.
9. Navigating conflict with respect is an essential part of healthy relationships. Challenges are inevitable & when we can communicate & work through them together we get stronger.