02/26/2026
There’s something I’ve been noticing in our session rooms lately.
A quiet tension.
The space between staying the same… and starting to change.
We’re so quick to judge the frozen parts of ourselves. To call them resistant. Avoidant. Unmotivated.
But in nature, freezing isn’t failure.
It’s preservation.
The longer something has been frozen, the longer it may take to thaw, not because it’s broken, but because it’s been protecting itself.
Ice doesn’t melt because it’s forced to.
It melts when warmth returns.
Healing is the same.
And sometimes… a relationship, community or a loving container is the sun.
We feels important here is to remember that melting is not superior to freezing. They both are required. Every stage, the slow melt, the water that seeps below the soil and nourishes the seeds no one can see, the refreeze when we need to slow down, and the slowing river when we are fully melted and in flow.
It’s all wisdom.
I shared a deeper reflection on this — about honouring the freeze, supporting the melt, and nurturing the flow that follows — over on the blog.
If this resonates, I think you’ll feel seen there. Check it out on the HRC website blog page and as always let me know what you think in the comments below ❤️🧊