08/05/2024
🧠 The real abandonment: changing yourself to be loved
When we feel we must become someone else to receive love and acceptance, we experience a deep and often unrecognized form of abandonment. This need to transform our true selves stems from past relational wounds, often from those we depended on most.
💔 The pain of conditional love:
Growing up, many of us learned that our true selves weren’t enough. We adapted, molding ourselves to fit the expectations and desires of others, hoping to be loved. This conditional love teaches us to abandon our authentic selves, leading to long-lasting emotional pain.
🔄 The cycle of change:
We carry these patterns into adulthood, seeking validation and acceptance through personas that aren’t genuinely us. Over time, this can lead to anxiety, depression, and a persistent feeling of emptiness.
🌱 Embracing authenticity:
Healing begins when we acknowledge this abandonment and start embracing our true selves. It’s a journey of self-discovery, self-acceptance, and setting boundaries. By reconnecting with who we genuinely are, we can break free from the cycle of conditional love and find healthier, more fulfilling relationships.
✨ The magic of authenticity:
The magic lies in finding our way back to our authentic selves. When we embrace who we truly are, we unlock the potential for real, unconditional love. Remember, you deserve to be loved for who you truly are.
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