01/29/2026
So true. ❤️
"two things can exist at the same time."
Nobody tells you how much guilt comes with dementia care.
Guilt when you lose patience.
Guilt when you need a break.
Guilt when you put them in a care home.
Guilt when you feel relieved they’re in hospital because you can finally sleep.
You start judging yourself for thoughts you’d never judge anyone else for.
But the truth is two things can exist at the same time and you can love someone deeply and still feel overwhelmed.
Both are true. Both are human.