04/21/2026
“Boundaries are the distance at which I can love you and me simultaneously.”
— Prentis Hemphill
Boundaries aren’t walls—they’re a form of self-respect and in some cases self-preservation.
They help us stay connected without abandoning ourselves, and they flex with our capacity—mentally, emotionally, and physically.
Some days, that might look like:
• at work: logging off on time, asking for clarity, or protecting your focus
• with family: choosing when (and how) you engage, or taking space when needed
• with friends: being honest about your energy, even when it’s a “not today”
• for yourself: rest without guilt, meeting ADHD needs like lower stimulation or structure, or simply slowing things down
Boundaries aren’t static—they shift with what’s real for you in the moment.
Setting a boundary doesn’t mean you love someone less. It means you’re making sure you don’t disappear in the process of loving them. It means you are looking after yourself first so that you can show up for other things later.