02/26/2026
What If The Worst News Of Your Life… Became The Permission Slip You Never Knew You Needed?
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I first met Laura at her consultation.
Fun. Bubbly. A young mom with twin girls, Judy and Daphne, just Four and a half years old.
Somewhere in that conversation she told me she was living with stage four cancer.
Palliative.
Usually when I sit in a room with someone carrying that reality, you can feel it. The air changes.
But not with Laura.
She was full of life. Telling stories about raising twins in Halifax with her husband Roddy. Living what she called “the dream.”
Until the fall down the stairs.
They thought the broken arm and back pain were from that.
But it wasn’t healing.
The pain wasn’t letting up.
At a massage appointment in Halifax, she mentioned night sweats.
Her therapist stopped mid-treatment.
Lifted her hands from her body.
Told her to call her husband Roddy.
Go to emergency.
Now.
Not tomorrow.
She warned her not to mention the long drive back from Cape Breton that week so they wouldn’t dismiss it as from that.
A scan.
Then another one 25 minutes later.
They know it's serious now.
Cancer in her liver, breast, and bones.
They told her she was the sickest person they had ever treated.
They weren’t sure it wasn’t too late.
Roddy left work immediately.
Stayed home.
Lifting her in and out of bed.
Caring for the girls.
Life as they knew it stopped that day.
They decided to move home. (Roddy grew up in New Waterford, Laura's parents grew up in New Waterford, they met in Halifax, that is for another story!)
They bought a small home thinking it would only be Roddy and the girls.
Fast forward to our shoot.
This is many many months later.
Laura looks fantastic.
Like beautiful fantastic.
Her sister-in-law Dawn came along. The last time I saw Dawn was almost 25 years ago when I was in a boardplayhouse production of One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest and she played Nurse Ratchet!
The real Dawn is nothing like that character.
She is sweet and super auntie to the max to the girls, and they adore her.
Photographing twins under five by the way is organized chaos. I’ve learned to see group photos like puzzles. Get this piece right. Then that one. Blend it later.
I’ve been dissecting moments in Photoshop for years.
Funny enough, life has taught me to do the same.
Deal with a piece here, a piece there.
Reveal day, I met Roddy.
Picture the friendliest guy you’d strike up a conversation with in a waiting room.
That’s him.
There’s a freedom about the two of them. A lightness that doesn’t make sense on paper.
They told me the hospital gave them books on how to tell your children you’re dying.
They moved home. Bought a house that would work for a single dad and two little girls.
Not because they were negative.
Because that was the reality placed in front of them.
By the grace of God, the radiation to her bones worked.
It only works for a small percentage of people.
The day of their reveal, Laura looked vibrant. Alive. They had just come back from Jack Frost in Charlottetown with the girls.
When I asked them what gift this has given them, they didn’t hesitate.
Permission.
Permission for Laura to stay home.
Permission to slow down.
Permission to be silly.
She runs through the school in an inflatable suits while kids chase her down the hall. (True story)
They said before this, the girls would have been in daycare from morning to night.
They would have been grinding through busy Halifax life, chasing the next thing.
Now?
They can’t get enough of each other.
(Are you crying yet? 'Cause I am as I write this)
The sickness brought them home to Cape Breton.
Closer to family.
Closer to roots.
They are living in the moment.
And I sat there realizing something.
We chase bigger houses.
Bigger cars.
Bigger trips.
All while the important things are usually sitting right in front of us.
This is coming from someone who works more than anyone I know.
But I love my clients.
I pray for them.
I think about them.
I worry about them.
In many ways, they are my extended family.
Laura and Roddy reminded me that joy is not the absence of hardship.
Sometimes it’s the decision to live fully right in the middle of it.
💛
Also they are our newest Cutest Little Capers!!!!!