03/11/2026
FaceTime’d my sis and her 10 month old baby girl this morning I can’t stop thinking about how having a “dad bod” is more socially acceptable than a postpartum body when we are LITERALLY the ones who have the baby.
“Dad bods” are often portrayed as adorable, sexy and attractive. When I looked up WHY it’s because “dad bods are associated with attractive personality traits — like a strong sense of humor, a down-to-earth mentality, and a healthy respect for work/life balance”.
While women with “mom bods” are judged harshly for their post partum bodies and thought “lazy” if they don’t lose weight quickly enough. The term “mom bod” is also often associated with being unfit or unattractive. No one is relating our stretch marks, love handles, dimples or soft bellies with positive personality traits.
Does anyone else see the irony in this? It’s pretty freakin’ backwards don’t you think? 😵💫
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