04/03/2026
Your loved ones in Spirit often come through with similar messages to those they have left behind. Guilt is a tough emotion to work through when you can go back and change what is. But I promise you, they give you full permission to let it go. Here are the common things they don’t want us feeling guilty for:
1. Not being able to help them. Wising we could have done something before it was too late. Not seeing signs of struggle. It’s not your fault.
2. Having to distance yourself from a toxic family member/person. They saw what went on after their passing. They don’t want you to feel guilty for protecting your peace and sanity.
3. Living your life. Having happy moments. Doing things that make you happy or even celebrating being able to do things you couldn’t before. They want to see us happy and they know life is too short.
4. Finding love again. Not for a second wound they choose loneliness or a life without love and connection for you. It’s ok if someone comes into your life….they see them and may have even sent them your way!
5. Not being there for their passing or at the funeral/celebration of life. They know why. They know what got in the way. They know you have regrets. They aren’t upset with you.
6. Not being able to fulfill their wishes. Time, distance, money, the weather, grief etc can make it hard to fulfill their wishes. It’s ok. I’ve never had a spirit come through upset in 10 years. Not once!
It’s not easy but let this be a sign that you can let go and be easy on yourself. They know you love them. Release the guilt 🤍