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oluvme I help people build sustainable life skills to support an authentic lifestyle true to their beliefs.

01/07/2026

My wish for you in 2026…
is that you give yourself permission to heal at your own pace —
to release the people-pleaser beliefs that kept you quiet in your marriage, your relationships, your family… and in your own heart.

You are not “too old” to start over.
You are not behind.
You are not broken.

You are a woman who survived disappointment, grief, judgment, and the fear of being alone — and still found the courage to choose yourself. 🤍

This is the year you stop shrinking to keep the peace.
The year you honour your needs.
The year you trust your voice again… even if it shakes.

Starting over later in life isn’t failure —
it’s a rebirth.

If this is you… you’re not alone.
I see you. I’m rooting for you. And I’m walking this chapter with you. ✨

Tell me in the comments —
What truth are you finally ready to honour in 2026?

My 2026 focus point is health and wealth and I am thrilled to be part of this amazing community which totally aligns wit...
01/07/2026

My 2026 focus point is health and wealth and I am thrilled to be part of this amazing community which totally aligns with my philosophy and community.

Stay tuned for updates on this exciting new opportunity .

01/06/2026

When the universe whispers “you’re on the right path” at 1:11… you pause, breathe, and remember that nothing in your life is happening by accident.

This new year isn’t about forcing or rushing the outcome — it’s about trusting the process, honoring divine timing, and allowing what’s meant for you to arrive with ease.

Safe passage. New beginnings. Aligned energy.
I’m exactly where I need to be. ✨🤍

What about you? Have you been receiving messages from the universe? Key to receiving is being open to receiving.

01/06/2026

My wish for you in 2026…
is that you finally release the people-pleaser beliefs that kept you small —
the guilt, the overexplaining, the fear of disappointing others.

This is the year you choose you without apology.
The year you trust your voice.
Honour your needs.
And listen to your heart — even when it feels uncomfortable… especially then. 🤍

If you’ve spent a lifetime putting yourself last, you’re not “selfish” for changing.
You’re healing. You’re awakening. You’re remembering who you are.

Here’s to boundaries, self-respect, softness, courage…
and a 2026 where you finally take up your space. ✨

Tell me in the comments —
What’s one people-pleasing habit you’re letting go of this year?

01/05/2026

Finding joy in the simple things often begins with one gentle shift — slowing down long enough to truly notice the moment you’re in.

Not rushing through it.
Not analyzing it.
Just… being present with it.

In our busy lives, we move from task to task, thought to thought, emotion to emotion — and so many meaningful moments pass by unseen.

But when we pause — even for a few seconds — something beautiful happens:

✨ the noise in our mind softens
✨ our breath becomes steadier
✨ and small moments begin to feel significant

Here’s what that looks like in everyday life, both for me and for my clients:

• taking an extra moment to enjoy the beautiful design on the cake before cutting into it
• noticing the expression on a loved one’s face instead of rushing past it
• feeling your feet on the ground when emotions feel overwhelming
• listening to a shared laugh — and letting yourself feel the warmth of it
• sitting with a memory… instead of pushing it away

These aren’t big events.
They’re quiet, ordinary moments — but they’re full of connection, meaning, and grounding.

And the more we practice noticing them, the more joy becomes accessible… even on heavy or uncertain days.

Here’s a simple way to turn this into a daily practice:

1️⃣ Choose one simple moment in your day
your morning routine, your commute, dinner with family, or a quiet pause before bed.

2️⃣ Slow the moment down
take a breath, soften your shoulders, feel where you are.

3️⃣ Notice one detail
a sound, a smell, a smile, a memory, a feeling in your body.

4️⃣ Acknowledge it
“Right now… this is enough.”

Over time, this becomes more than a habit —
it becomes a way of living with presence, gratitude, and emotional awareness.

Because joy isn’t always found in the big milestones.
Often… it lives inside the simple moments we choose to honor. 🤍

Tell me —
What’s one simple moment today that you slowed down to notice?

Today as reality hits us, we need a strong reminder of how to slow down. 👩‍💻

01/05/2026

If life feels heavy… sometimes the first step isn’t fixing everything — it’s noticing one simple thing you can appreciate in this moment.

Not the big breakthroughs.
Not the perfect plan.
Just one small thing that reminds you you’re still here… still growing… still capable of feeling joy.

Because when we’re overwhelmed, our mind goes into survival mode — replaying worries, future outcomes, past stories, and “what ifs.” That’s when we gently bring ourselves back to the present.

✨ One moment. One breath. One point of gratitude.

Here’s what this looks like in real life — the way my clients practice it:

• appreciating the sound of laughter at the dinner table after a hard day
• feeling the sun on their face for 30 seconds in the car before going inside
• noticing the way their pet curls up beside them when they sit down
• recognizing the comfort of a warm cup of tea or soup
• pausing to hear a memory in a song… instead of rushing past it

It may feel small — but here’s what happens when we do this:

✔️ your nervous system calms
✔️ your thoughts slow down
✔️ your body stops bracing for stress
✔️ your mind shifts from scarcity to gratitude

And little by little…
you stop living only in the heaviness —
and start reconnecting with the beauty that still exists.

Here’s a gentle habit you can start today:

1️⃣ When the day feels heavy, pause for 5–10 seconds
2️⃣ Look for one simple thing in front of you to appreciate.

3️⃣ Name it:
“This moment matters.”
“I’m safe right now.”
“There is still something good here.”

Do this once a day — then twice — then three times.
Not to escape life…
but to anchor yourself back into it.

Because joy doesn’t always arrive loudly.
Sometimes it whispers through the smallest moments —
and choosing to notice them is an act of self-care. 🤍

Tell me in the comments —
What’s one simple thing you appreciated today?

01/04/2026

Finding joy in the simple things isn’t about doing more — it’s about noticing what’s already here.

In the reel, I’m stirring tea with some of the girls in our family as we honoured my mom’s 93rd heavenly birthday. Nothing fancy. No big event. Just a quiet moment… laughter, warmth, memories, and connection.

That moment reminded me of something powerful:

👉 Joy often hides inside the ordinary —
and we miss it when we rush through life.

Here are a few everyday examples of how my clients learn to slow down and find joy in the present:

• noticing the sound of a kettle boiling instead of scrolling their phone
• feeling the warmth of a mug in their hands before the day gets busy
• taking a breath before reacting during a stressful conversation
• watching their child laugh and letting themselves feel it
• enjoying a short walk instead of mentally reviewing their to-do list

When we pause long enough to notice a moment —

✨ our nervous system softens
✨ our thoughts slow down
✨ we reconnect with gratitude instead of overwhelm

And over time… presence becomes emotional strength.

It’s not about pretending life is perfect.
It’s about saying:

“Right now, this moment matters.”

Here’s a simple way to turn this into a daily habit:

1️⃣ Choose one ordinary moment each day
Your morning coffee, your evening walk, stirring a pot of soup, sitting beside someone you love.

2️⃣ Pause for 10 seconds
Feel it. Notice the sounds, textures, emotions.

3️⃣ Name the joy out loud
“This is a good moment.”
“This feels peaceful.”
“I’m grateful for this.”

That small pause rewires your brain to look for what nourishes you — instead of what drains you.

And that’s where joy truly begins. 🤍

If this resonates, tell me in the comments —
What simple moment brought you joy today?

Thank you to for a lovely afternoon tea, one I’m sure mom ( the OG of style) would have loved.

❤️

✨Thank you — from both Peter and me — for the beautiful messages, heartfelt wishes, and the incredible kindness you’ve s...
01/02/2026

✨Thank you — from both Peter and me — for the beautiful messages, heartfelt wishes, and the incredible kindness you’ve shared with us. Whether we’ve met in person or connected through our communities and life journeys, feeling this much love around us has truly touched our hearts.

We are deeply grateful for your thoughtfulness and support as we step into this next chapter together.

A very special thank-you to our families for welcoming not only us — but also our children — with such warmth, respect, and love. Your openness and kindness in embracing our families as one means more to us than words can express.

Our love story means so much to us — and knowing that so many of you are celebrating alongside us makes it even more special.

With love and gratitude,
Tina & Peter 🥂💕

01/01/2026

New Year isn’t just about a fresh calendar — it’s about honoring who we became on the journey that brought us here.

This past year brought growth, resilience, awareness, and so many moments that reminded me how powerful it is to keep showing up for yourself.

I’m carrying the lessons forward with gratitude…
and stepping into this new chapter with intention, clarity, and courage.

If this past year stretched you, changed you, or woke you up — you’re not alone.
We’re walking into this new year together. 🤍✨

Cheers to alignment, self-love, and brave new beginnings.

As I look back on this year, I’m reminded of how much can happen in 12 months — the adventures, the challenges, the less...
12/31/2025

As I look back on this year, I’m reminded of how much can happen in 12 months — the adventures, the challenges, the lessons, the growth we don’t always notice until we pause.

Thank you to everyone who has been part of my journey — my clients, friends, loved ones, and this beautiful community.

Your support, your messages, your stories… they mean more than you know.

Here’s to healing, love, courage, and choosing ourselves a little more each day.
Happy New Year — may the next chapter be kind, meaningful, and full of light 🤍✨

12/31/2025

Τα λόγια είναι περιττά.


Ευγνωμοσύνη.

A heart filled with gratitude. ❤️

Thank you 2025

Five Things I Learned About Myself in 2025 — As a Recovering People PleaserAs I scroll through pictures and reminisce ab...
12/30/2025

Five Things I Learned About Myself in 2025 — As a Recovering People Pleaser

As I scroll through pictures and reminisce about moments 2025 gifted me with I also look back to the life lessons I learned and evaluate my own personal growth.

Self evaluation is not easy but for their to be evolution you must be able to take a long hard look at yourself and without judgement self evaluate.

Getting over old habits is a process that takes time and effort to accomplish. It also takes commitment, compassion and grace.

What have you learned about yourself this year?

Let us know in the comments.

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