Meghan Gilholm: Funeral Officiant

11/23/2025

Losing a grandparent hurts…
but losing them before your babies get to meet them hits in a completely different way.

You look at your kids and think,
“They would’ve loved you so much.”

It’s grieving the person you lost
& the relationship your children will never have.

The stories they’ll never hear.
The hugs they’ll never feel.
The love they’ll never get to experience.

So you keep their memory alive the only way you can,through pictures, stories, & the pieces of them that live in you.

Because even though they aren’t here…
their love still reaches your babies through you. 💛🕊️

11/21/2025

Psalm 118:24 this is the day that the Lord has made let us rejoice and be glad in it. Not every day is a good day but in every day there is something to be thankful for. Let us rejoice.

11/19/2025

11/17/2025

She didn’t stop talking about the baby because she “moved on.”
She stopped because people got uncomfortable.

Because grief makes the room go quiet.
Because loss makes others change the subject.
Because society has never known what to do with a mother whose baby never made it earthside.

But her love didn’t fade.
Her pain didn’t disappear.
Her baby didn’t become any less real just because others didn’t know how to hold the conversation.

She carries that little life in a place no one can see,
and sometimes silence is the only safe place she has left.

11/10/2025

11/03/2025

Tissues needed

11/01/2025

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10/28/2025

The important stuff is embarrassingly simple.

10/26/2025

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