07/22/2025
๐๐ณ ๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐บ๐ฎ๐ธ๐ฒ๐ ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฑ ๐๐ผ๐บ๐ฎ๐ปโฆ ๐ง๐ฒ๐น๐น ๐บ๐ฒ ๐๐ต๐ ๐๐ผ๐๐ฟ ๐ฏ๐ผ๐ฑ๐ ๐ณ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐น๐ ๐๐๐ฐ๐ต ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐น๐ถ๐ฒ๐ณ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ผ๐ ๐ณ๐ถ๐ป๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐๐ฝ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐ธ ๐๐ต๐ฒ ๐๐ผ๐ฟ๐ฑ๐ ๐๐ผ๐โ๐๐ฒ ๐ฏ๐ฒ๐ฒ๐ป ๐ต๐ผ๐น๐ฑ๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ฏ๐ฎ๐ฐ๐ธ?
For years, I believed the myth that if I let my anger show, it would mean I was failing as a woman.
That Iโd be labeled difficult. Dramatic. Too much. So instead, I swallowed it. Smiled through gritted teeth. Pretended everything was fine while my chest burned and my jaw locked tight.
And maybe youโve felt it too.
This is the myth I want to gently unravel today: โGood women donโt get angry.โ Beloved, thatโs a lie the world told us to keep us quiet.
Because hereโs the truth: Anger is not a sign youโre a bad woman. Itโs a sign that youโre a woman whoโs alive. Anger rises in you because something precious is being threatened your boundaries, your integrity, your truth.
Itโs your bodyโs sacred alarm, saying: โThis is not okay.โ The real harm doesnโt come from feeling anger. The harm comes from burying it.
When we force anger into silence, it doesnโt disappear. It festers into resentment, shame, exhaustion, and a deep, quiet grief for the woman we used to be.
Imagine a life where you can feel your angerโฆ without shameโฆ and let it guide you back to your truth instead of dragging you into self-blame. Because anger isnโt here to destroy your life. Itโs here to save it.
You are not too much. You are not failing. Youโre simply a woman whose soul refuses to disappear. And that, beloved, is sacred.