04/28/2026
𝐍𝐄𝐖 𝐁𝐎𝐎𝐊 𝐑𝐄𝐋𝐄𝐀𝐒𝐄 - 𝐖𝐇𝐄𝐍 𝐓𝐇𝐄 𝐆𝐑𝐎𝐔𝐍𝐃 𝐒𝐇𝐈𝐅𝐓𝐒
Nobody teaches us how to be when a parent dies.
Not really.
We get condolences. We get casseroles. We get "let me know if you need anything" and then, quietly, we get left alone with something that doesn't fit inside ordinary life.
The ground under our feet suddenly feels... unstable.
I've sat with the dying. I've walked alongside the bereaved. I am carrying my own deaths— including my mother, in 2022 — and I know what it is to move through the world with a weight that others cannot quite see.
And then, something started to take shape. And that shape has come to look like a companion book. And that companion book is now here, ready for you.
It's called *When the Ground Shifts* — a grief companion book for anyone whose parent has died and doesn't quite know how to carry it. Not a self-help book. Not a list of stages.
A lantern.
Six teachings, reflection prompts, space to write, and the kind of honesty about grief that our culture tends to avoid.
Come, walk with me...
You'll finish this guide knowing how to carry your grief — not as a wound to fix, but as a love longing for somewhere to go. You'll have language, rituals, and a structure to hold yourself and your family through one of life's most disorienting passa...