02/03/2025
For months, Iāve searched for words to capture the loss of my beautiful Granny from this earthly realm (and just one month after my Nonna passed away). I shared a tribute for my Nonna at that time but didn't expect God to call them both home within weeks of each other, and the weight of it felt deeply profound, and I'm still integrating. Also, just before Granny passed, my cousin was called home, as well. They say things happen in threes, and that month was a full range of deep emotions.
Just weeks before she passed, we celebrated Grannyās 101st birthday (a memory etched on our hearts). Her quick wit and dirty jokes, bright light, and (letās call them strong preferences, haha) were on full display. She needed a *particular* glass and straw, fed the boys whipped cream off her finger, almost choked on strawberry seeds, and was horrified when I offered water instead of Coke. Classic Granny.
Last night, I played bingo, *her* game. I wore a sweater she knit and her gold pin of an angel holding a bingo card (yes, really, haha). I felt her spirit with me, and it made me smile.
At 101, Granny lived a wild and full life. Despite challenges, she loved fiercely (especially all her grandchildren), called in community with fiery passion, and expected nothing but the best. Even in her final hours, despite the pain, she cracked (dirty) jokes with the doctors and turned her hospital room into a party. She had a strong voice, spoke her truth unapologetically, and taught me that laughter is one of the best remedies for a long life.
When doctors called it cancer, she never did (at least I never heard her). She didn't give it power. āIāve got this little black spot on my lungs, and weāre just gonna get rid of it. Thatās all.ā And she did! Twice! That was Granny (focused, strong, resilient).
Remembering many Sundays together, especially as a child, she turned ordinary moments into something special, just by being her. Iāll remember her love, her dirty jokes, and the way she made life feel fun. I feel deeply grateful to have gained two incredible ancestors last year and to walk the path they helped paved.