ReWild Counselling Services

ReWild Counselling Services Counselling sessions are available in person or virtually. Anyone 12 and over can work with me.

I am an approved provider for First Nations Health Authority (FNHA), Crime Victim Assistance Program (CVAP) and ICBC and WCB.

06/21/2025
06/06/2025
05/19/2025

Someone who is highly narcissistic has high levels of shame. This comes from a lack of childhood relationship attunement. In short: there was no caretaker to mirror back and validate how they felt, to comfort or soothe, to be a healthy example of how to love, or to set clear boundaries and limits. Remember, limitations are just as important as emotional nourishment to children. Children need an adult who can clearly (and calmly) say “no” “that’s enough” and “this behavior is not ok.”

The highly narcissistic person will struggle to communicate how they feel. They struggle to handle the emotions of others and the boundaries of others. They are highly deflective, which makes conflict very difficult to navigate. Their inner shame becomes consuming in relationships. They easily become emotionally triggered— and often don’t feel good enough. They shut down quickly. They may say things like “I just can’t make you happy” or “this just doesn’t work because you do x.” What they actually feel is out of control. They lack relational skills like conflict resolution, active listening, and often fall into patterns of sulking or the silent treatment. Because they’re prone to chronic dissociation, it usually feels like they’re physically there but a million miles away mentally.

I get asked so often “well how do I make ten relationship work?” Or “how can I get them to see they act this way or that way” and the answer is always the same: you can’t.

The truth about life is we all have our past. We all have trauma and shame and experiences that completely changed who we are. And we all have hope, and opportunity, and ability to dedicate ourselves to healing. We have more information that we’ve had in human history.

If the person isn’t doing the work, the better question to ask becomes: “Can I stay if nothing about this person changes?”

Then you choose. And you always have permission to choose yourself

05/01/2025

Check out our one day gardening workshop hosted by Lacey from Hunniford Gardens. Bring your own pot and learn to plant a salad bowl or pansy pot, surrounded by other people who understand loss. For more information or to register, ldecroos@pghpcs.ca or 250-563-2551
pghpcs.ca

03/27/2025
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03/06/2025

A peer-based phone, text, and webchat service providing free and confidential support to health and community care workers in BC

02/28/2025
02/28/2025

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Prince George, BC

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Monday 9am - 6pm
Tuesday 10am - 7pm
Wednesday 10am - 6pm

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ReWild Counselling is passionate and committed to travelling alongside you during our time together. Sessions are customized and thoughtful; the care is genuine and compassionate. With over 15 years in the helping profession, working with adolescents, families and individuals and licensed to practice as a Registered Social Worker (RSW), Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) as well as a Canadian Certified Counsellor (CCC) your sessions will be customized to reflect you and your needs.