12/26/2025
This was such a rich conversation with Victoria on The Autism Mums Podcast.
We spoke about something that many parents feel but rarely have space to talk about: what happens to our relationships when we’re carrying the emotional weight of raising a child with additional health or developmental needs.
The truth is, no one teaches us how to stay connected when life feels overwhelming. And for couples navigating chronic stress, it’s easy to slip into survival mode, where disconnection, irritability, and that quiet “roommate” feeling start to take hold.
But it doesn’t have to stay that way.
In this episode, I share how emotional safety and nervous system regulation create the foundation for renewed intimacy. It’s not about grand gestures or fixing everything at once. Sometimes the most powerful shifts come from the smallest practices: sitting side by side, breathing together, holding hands, choosing tenderness in the moment.
We also talk about boundaries, co-regulation, communication, and the importance of making space for each other, even when life is full, because when you prioritize your relationship, the whole household feels the ripple effect.
This one is close to my heart. You can listen now to Episode 45 of The Autism Mums Podcast here: https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/rebuilding-relationships-while-supporting-neurodivergent/id1810071731?i=1000740395835