Partner Up

02/08/2025

This post is very near and dear to my heart. I have spent my life giving horses a voice. They arrive so dysregulated they are labelled as dangerous, unsuitable, and unusable.

No, I am not a horse trainer.

I am skilled at giving a voice where there is no voice or a voice that no longer matches the situation. Once they understand the power of a voice, mine and theirs, I call that getting the head back in the game.

From there it becomes about clear boundaries, clear consistency and super active listening, so their system has a chance to feel safe and begin to regulate. Each and every horse is unique and that is why I have never liked models or training methods that do not take into consideration the unique needs of the individual horse so that it may become the best it can be without becoming a robot with no voice.

Most humans have no idea what their horse is saying or what it means to give the horse a voice, even though they think they do.

That is in essence what the Partner Up Program is all about. It gives the human the skills, knowledge and awareness so that the horse they have becomes everything they have always wanted and more.

As humans we need to be able to hear what is said with a curiosity mindset rather than taking it personally.

If you have ever wondered, how can I be better for my horse, pm me for a free private consultation.

I don’t think people realize just how many horses out there carry trauma with them.

With that, I don’t even mean severely abused horses that have been starved, or beaten heavily. There are plenty of those around, and those usually cause a lot of outrage (as they should).

What I am talking about though, is the horses whose trauma is never really recognized as such. The ones who tolerate humans and their requests, but never learned to trust them. Those who get extremely obsessive about food which are labelled as “bossy” or ”dominant”. Those who deal with severe Separation anxiety, which are said to be “dramatic”. Those who cannot self-regulate, or co-regulate and constantly carry tension. Those who try to express their pain, which get punished for it because “just a mare”.
Those who are “perfect” until they finally get a choice.

Between Unethical weaning practices, unsuitable welfare, constantly moving homes & and ownership, and aversive training/handling approaches, most horses at some point experience trauma. And this trauma can present itself in a variety of ways. Some are more subtle than others.
Trauma doesn’t have to be this huge explosive reaction. Just like people, horses can carry trauma and move on with their lives fairly normally. It can shape their personality just like it can shape ours.
However, that doesn’t mean doing so is healthy.

The horse that has been in 6+ homes before the age of 10, and thus can’t cope with changes. That is Trauma.
The horse that has never had consistent companionship and becomes obsessive with certain herd mates. That is Trauma
The horse that has only known corrections when they tried to express their confusion, fear, or dislike, and turns from “a perfect beginner’s horse” to “Don’t touch me” the moment you stop using corrections. That is Trauma.
The horse that never had a chance to learn from other horses or connect with people and thus can’t trust people to make good choices for them, can’t self-regulate or co-regulate, and can’t think their way through a situation. That is Trauma.
The horse who was only ever fed 2 times a day and was left without food for 6 hours each night, and has thus become food-aggressive. That is Trauma.
The horse who experienced highly aversive training techniques, and thus now gets frustrated, tense and severely stressed out anytime they are handled in a similar manner. That. Is. Trauma.

Sometimes, awareness of this can be a frustration and defeating realization. I think as equestrians we are often blind to this reality, because sadly, it’s just so common to see horses like that.
It’s not until you work with young, untraumatized horses, or rehabilitated horses, that you realize: “Oh! This is how it should be!”

01/27/2025

Well said, exceptionally well explained. This is not magic but awareness at a level that most never experience. This is why so much of my Partner Up Program is aimed at increasing awareness. Connection is so much more than a one dimensional relationship.

In Hand Tai Chi
In Tai Chi, the arms and the body always move together. If the arms move separately, the movement fails. The body integrity applies to the rider. We feel many variations in the horse’s contact on the bit with the fingers, but if we respond with the hands and arms, we fail the horse. The horse feels our whole physique, and our body integrity is primordial in managing forces. When we are told to look in the direction we want the horse to go, we are told a gesture that makes us lose the integrity of our body and our capacity to channel the forces in the direction we like to go. We should been told to face the direction we would like the horse to go with our shoulders, sternum, and pelvis, understanding that the horse turns efficiently, bending the thoracic spine, which we influence with our upper thighs. But, if we act with the upper thighs independently of our body, we fail to bend the horse’s thoracic spine. Efficiency demands that the horse feels through our upper thighs, the direction of our whole body tone.

For a year, I worked with Lafayette in hand to rehabilitate him from a fracture of the right hind leg coffin bone. The bone was remodeled with stall rest, but the deep digital and superficial flexor had shrunk, and Lafayette could not place his hind hoof flat on the ground. I restored the proper function of the right hind leg, coordinating Lafayette’s whole physique for greater balance control. Many lesions, including arthritis, result from improper forces loading the structure. The diagnostic tools allowing us to identify the lesion are useful, but the cure relies on our ability to identify and correct the dysfunction stressing the structure. It is not a progressive number of minutes at the walk or trot that rehabilitates a horse; it is the quality of the walk and trot. I walked by Lafayette’s side one step at a time at first to recreate each stride, the body coordination allowing the lift of the trunk between the forelegs, flexe the thoracic spine, and dorsoventral rotation of the pelvis allowing a heel first impact of the right hind legs and a flat contact of the hoof during the stance. The whole body coordination, including the flat contact of the hoff during the stance, recreated stride after stride elasticity of the geep digital and superficial flexor tendon and adequate fetlock dorsiflexion.
It is the coordination of Lafayette whole physique that restored soundness. If I had walked a progressive number of minutes with corrective shoeing, as I was advised, Lafayerre would not have recovered. I had to evolve from linear thinking to lift Lafayette’s trunk between the shoulder blades and ensure the thoracolumbar spine’s flexion and the pelvis’s dorsoventral rotation allowing proper hoof placement. Step after step, I realized that I had to think in three dimensions. I could not create adequate balance control and sound hind legs’ kinematics without channeling the forces forward through Lafayette’s thoracolumbar spine more efficiently. My classical education told me about straightness, but the straightness I needed to refine was dynamics straightness. Maintaining his shoulders in front of his haunches was easy, but I needed Lafayette to channel the forces forward through his thoracolumbar spine in a narrow corridor. At this time, I was unaware that balance was centering the forces around the center of mass. I had a traditional linear concept of balance, which was insufficient. Without knowing it, I channeled the forces above and around Lafayette’s center of mass.
All the work was done in hand. Lafayette was not in shape to carry a rider. No book was talking about this work, not even any scientific study. I adventured in the unknown, and it was a blessing as the dynamic relationship that I explored with Lafayette was different than everything I knew, and I did not try to compare it with anything I learned from my classical education. The vet who helped me with Lafayette’s rehabilitation was supportive but also told me the chances of success were not more than one in ten thousand.
I was alone in the Virginia countryside, walking by Lafayette’s side, animated by the strong desire to help him. I knew the body coordination I needed to create, but I did not have the tools I was familiar with: leg pressure, hand actions, and body movements. We had a tensegrity relation, and I learned to control the lateral shifts of Lafayette’s shoulders and haunches. Once the shoulder had shifted. I could not replace it. I had to halt Lafayette and restart straight. I learned to feel through his body motion, the direction of the forces, and to react before they shifted the shoulders or the haunches sideway. The importance of the frequency was a point that surprised me. If I reacted too fast, I altered our dynamic relation. It was an entirely new world for me. Instead of the gesture, I had to concentrate on the force that the gesture would have suggested. Lafayette was very comfortable in this dynamic relation; energy looked familiar to him. He acted as if I was clearer in my dialogue, as if the absence of gestures allowed him to feel better my nuances in muscle tone.
Lafayette became sound, as you know and we did numerous presentations in hand. A great part of Lafayette’s rehabilitation was intuitive. Biotensegrity is the best explanation so far. Mechanical thinking could not explain the relation Lafayette and I developed during this experience. Even today, reductionists try to mimic what we did, remaining at the stimulus-response level. I always talk about a new dimension, another world, but now, an advanced understanding of the human and equine body function allows us to describe better and explain. Betsy did a similar “Impossible” recovery with her mare suffering from a severe club foot issue. Betsy did it entirely in hand and succeeded beyond what the veterinary world is ready to accept. Betsy asked her farrier to balance the hoof properly, but no corrective shoeing. We try to understand and explain it in our respective fields of expertise.
There is a new world, a world where each of us can do better than through the traditional approach, but there is an important move to make. Tradition is the peer pressure of dead people. Are you ready to move on?
Jean Luc

12/30/2024

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08/22/2024

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08/22/2024

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06/20/2024

When you want to connect with yourself and increase your vibrational frequency this guided meditation will quiet your mind, balance your chakras, open your intuition. Play this while you are with your horse and enjoy the shared energy field that is created.

06/17/2024

Sometimes words punch, sometimes they smolder, sometimes they rikochet, sometimes they imply you are too much, sometimes they imply you are not enough, sometimes they imply the sender believes they are not enough, sometimes they imply the sender does not feel needed or valued

Always take the time needed so how you respond is chosen rather than a reaction. Do not give energy to that which does not support you.

05/06/2024

Trust

A while back I was scrolling FB and my eyes came to rest on a post made by Alexa Linton. In this post there was a picture of her spending quality time with her horse while it was resting laying down, and she explained her journey to get to this place with her horse.

I then headed outside to go catch my horse. I was deep in thought about how important it is to achieve trust, and even more how important it is for the person to feel that they are trusted by their horse. In the words Alexa wrote I could feel how much this meant to her.

I pondered whether or not a horse lying down in your presence or remaining laying down was indeed a form of trust.

I now have my halter in hand and as I step into the field, all 3 horses lay down. Weird I think to myself.

Even more strange was that I felt the same kind of weightless, soundless, cocoon type energy I did the night Gemini had colic.

I reach Twister, stroke his face, and he lays flat out. I move to Izzy, as I rub her forehead, she presses into my hand, closes her eyes and lays out flat.

I stand there, feeling like I am in a dream…..it is so still and quiet……I am looking for the message….but none come.

I walk over to Gemini, he nickers, and I no sooner touch his forehead and he lays flat out. I look at my hand, I look at my halter. What am I supposed to do……why is this happening?????

I lay on Gemini, and I slide down his belly and wrap his legs around me. Hi legs feel so light and free that it makes me uncomfortable.

I get up and I grab his foreleg and move it here and there. The leg is so relaxed I can feel the space in the joints as I move the leg. I do the same with the hind leg. Okay so something feels off here. As I try to manage the worry creeping up inside of me, I reach down and open Gemini’s eye lid. The eye is opaque and clearly not seeing. I let go of the lid and the lid stays open to where I opened it. I feel the worry bubble up.

Izzy gets up and comes to stand beside me and Gemini. I think to myself that I am not comfortable with this level of trust, because It has me thinking something is not right here. The lid is still open as I left it, the eye is unseeing and now his tongue is sticking out between his front teeth and has oozed out the sides. I pull on a whisker and get no response, no twitch….nothing.

Now what???? I stand there. I ask myself why are you so concerned???? That does not appease me. I lift his head and slide on the halter. No response. I close the lid over the eye. I look at the tongue oozing out the sides of his mouth, the silence is deafening.

I pull on the halter to try to get a response, nothing. Now both horses are up and standing right beside me. I am sure they feel my distress. They both reach down with their muzzles and touch Gemini.

I am having trouble keeping the frantic feeling under control. I am pulling harder on the halter and my voice is getting louder. I want him up.

I go to the other side, sit down and slide my legs in under his head and wiggle around till I am able to lift his head up with my legs. I thrust with my legs and his neck and head leave my feet and then flop back onto my feet. I balance his neck and head and thrust again. No response.

Why does this s**t happen to me????? He is breathing, he has a heart beat. Ok his gums look shocky….Internal bleeding???

I slap his muzzle and my hand stings. I slap it again, and again. His leg moves. I keep slapping. The leg moves more. I pull on the halter and tell him to get up. He lifts his head 4 inches off the ground and immediately it falls back to the ground.

More slapping, and eventually, he lifts his head. His eyes are still closed, his tongue is still oozing out the sides of his mouth. I pull his front feet out in front of him. He makes a few attempts to stand up but slides back to the ground.

Then he is on his feet, eyes still closed and tongue still oozing out the sides. He starts to blink and I can see eye movement beneath the lids. It looks like it is hard for him to open his eyes. Twister hauls off and bits Gemini in the neck….probably payback for all the times Gemini has done that to him.

Gemini’s lids open half-mast. His eyes are still dull and unseeing. I ask him to come and he walks towards me, I keep backing up and he keeps coming. I get him back to the barn and he is kinda back to normal except he is exhausted. It is like he just ran a marathon.

Should I have left him “sleeping” or did I do the right thing in making him get up? I will never know for sure. One thing for certain, I would rather have him leap up at the sight of me than have another experience like this one.

Update: A couple of weeks later, I again headed out to the field to catch the horses, only to have all 3 laydown and then lay flat out as I approached. I caught both Izzy and Gemini and both got right up and we carried on.

Is it my energy? Is there a message I am missing? Coincidence? All I know for certain is if this keeps up I am sure to suffer death by laying down horse.

05/01/2024

Equina Biosa has morphed and is now called Equeste. Equeste has 3 microbial strains and Equeste Extra Strength has 9 microbial strains.

If there is interest I will gladly provide a free talk on bacteria and its importance to health. I will answer questions in the comments below as well.

I have over 30 years experience with microbes and the many applications, ( water purification, compost, gardens, sludge pits, slurries, lagoons, septics, crops, animal husbandry, cattle, hogs, chickens, etc.)

Here is the opportunity to pick my brain.

04/27/2024

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04/27/2024

On Monday April 29 at 6 pm PST I begin teaching Part 3 of my Partner Up Program. Part 3 is dedicated to Anatomics, both our own and our horses. If we have restrictions, our horses will have restrictions and vice versa. When we learn how to identify our restrictions, imbalances and correct them it is truly amazing how this changes our relationship with our horse.

In the comments below or if you click on the picture you will find a zoom link that will give you free access to this 2 hour session.

04/23/2024

This sums it up perfectly!!