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Block Wellness & Consulting Inc. I believe in using an integrated model of therapy that is client directed and culturally appropriate. A Psychologist can help you reach your goals.

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Share from The Occuplaytional Therapist & Mona Delahooke, Ph.D. 💕

This goes back to assuming that children do everything that they do because they want to do it — that if they’re not doing something, it’s the *motivation* that they’re lacking, rather than the *skills* that they’re lacking.

Reasoning with them is trying to motivate them.
Rewarding them is trying to motivate them.
Offering incentives is trying to motivate them.
Coercion (like punishment) is trying to motivate them.

And if they can’t do the thing, then none of it will make any difference: because they can’t do the thing. No one could reason, reward, incentivize, or coerce you into being able to do something that you literally cannot do, either.

The problem is that to accept that a child literally cannot do something (maybe at that time, maybe in that moment, maybe forever, maybe “yet”, maybe in that environment or in those circumstances or for that person…) is a massive lens shift for most adults. Because it’s easier for most adults to believe that children are just being [insert negative descriptor here] rather than to believe that they actually can’t do something on a timeline the adult has deemed appropriate.

[Image description: A dark blue background with white text over it which reads, “No matter how much you try to reason, reward, or offer incentives, you can’t coerce or even teach a child to have control over something they can’t actually control.” The quote is by Mona Delahooke, while the image itself is by and it is labelled “Brain-Body Parenting”. End description.]

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09/02/2025

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Once upon a time, we all knew how to speak the language of symbols, rhythm, and magic. We believed in dragons, followed trails of breadcrumbs through the forest, and saw ourselves in wide-eyed heroes, clever foxes, and enchanted trees. For Carl Jung, fairy tales were not childish fantasies but living blueprints of the human psyche. He believed these stories revealed the inner workings of the unconscious mind, especially the part he called the collective unconscious — a shared well of imagery, emotion, and experience we are all born with.

At Chakradance Kids, co-founders Anna Kelly and Natalie Southgate use fairy tales not as entertainment—but as mirrors of the inner self.

When children step into story and dance, something extraordinary happens—imagination becomes transformation, and the brain lights up with possibility.

Neuroscience shows that storytelling and embodied movement activate multiple brain systems simultaneously, for example, the left hemisphere (language, logic) and right hemisphere (emotion, imagery), helping children integrate emotion with understanding (1). This integration is crucial for developing emotional regulation and a coherent sense of self.

Neurosequential Model of Therapeutics (NMT) outlines how trauma and dysregulation are most effectively addressed through bottom-up regulation. Activities like dance, drumming, and movement re-pattern brainstem and midbrain responses through rhythm, which is the first language of brain development.

When story meets movement, the whole child awakens—mind, heart, and body weaving together in resilient harmony.

Over 30 years ago, Natalie Southgate created Chakradance for adults, as a powerful movement-based form of active imagination for adults. This proven therapeutic process helped individuals connect with their inner world through dance, music, and guided imagery, allowing unconscious material to safely surface and be integrated. Then, 15 years ago, we found a way to adapt this process for children, bringing it into classrooms, kindergartens, and family homes through the creation of Chakradance Kids.

Modern neuroscience supports this approach. According to child psychiatrist, Dr. Daniel Siegel, storytelling helps integrate both hemispheres of the brain by connecting emotional experience with logical understanding. In ‘The Whole-Brain Child’, he explains how naming emotions and creating narrative structure helps children process and regulate their internal world.

Storytelling and Movement
When storytelling is paired with movement, it becomes an even more powerful multisensory experience. Dr. Bruce Perry, a leading voice in trauma and child development, emphasises that rhythmic, patterned, and relational activities, such as dance, drumming, and guided movement, help regulate the nervous system and support healing, especially for children processing stress or overwhelm.

By engaging the whole brain and body, these practices help children:
💫 Strengthen memory and attention

💫 Develop empathy and emotional regulation

💫 Improve sequencing and cognitive function

💫 Increase creativity, confidence, and self-awareness

In Chakradance Kids, these benefits are woven into every session. From story to movement to art, children are developing not only skills, but a deeper relationship with themselves. We are happy to collaborate and share the great work they do for children and adults.

References:
https://chakradancekids.com/

Dr. Dan Siegel, The Whole-Brain Child. (2024, June 4). https://drdansiegel.com/book/the-whole-brain-child/

Bruce D. Perry and Maia Szalavitz, The boy who was raised as a dog : and other stories from a child psychiatrist’s notebook : what traumatized children can teach us about loss, love, and healing. (August, 2017). Colorado Mountain College. https://cmc.marmot.org/Record/.b57463384

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09/01/2025

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Responsive Parenting Inspirations 💗 “My child never listens!”
Do they really mean “listen” or do they mean “obey”?
When we teach children that the meaning of the word “listen” is actually “obey” they never learn the true meaning of the word. The act of “listening” to someone else instantly evokes feelings of giving up one’s power.
That’s why we try to control other people’s actions and feelings when they do ask us to listen. We think “if I just listen to their point of view, I’m complying and agreeing with what they are saying.” That’s not what “listening” means. When “listen” means “obey” it can be hard for people not to get defensive.
I believe I encounter this paradigm most days, online. People read something I wrote that they do not agree with. They become offended and defensive, even though the post was not personally addressed to them. They made a choice consume the message. Instead of seeing it as a message that they could listen to or not, they saw it as a requirement to obey; “how dare you try to tell me how to parent?”
Well, I didn’t... but when we teach children that the concept of “listening” and “obedience” are so closely intertwined, people can spend their life becoming defensive of those who don’t share their views on everything.
J. Milburn
Edited to add:
Examples of alternatives to “listen to me!”
“I need you to _____ because ______.”
“You need to _______ because _______.”
“You will need to _______ if you want to _______.”
Examples in practice
“I need you to hold my hand because I need to keep you safe in the busy parking lot.”
“You need to brush your teeth because you just ate a cupcake.”
“You will need to put on your shoes if you want to go to the park.”.

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09/01/2025

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