11/18/2019
When it comes up, most people assume that I wouldn’t hire a doula, being one myself. ⠀
The opposite is true.
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I have hired support for each birth, not because I *needed* anybody present in order to feel prepared (in fact, my second birth was SO fast, my doula got rerouted a bunch + missed the birth, and the midwife made it as she was being born😄). Rather, I chose to invite someone whom I felt intrinsically connected to, to support us as I led my own birth. I chose someone who I knew saw me as the rockstar that I am, someone who not only trusted birth but also believed just as much as I do in my own intuition. And what I gained in that was freedom, uninhibited confidence in myself, and well...this. The pictures that I have from River’s birth (all 3 of my births, for that matter) mean the absolute world to me. My beloved doula, Becky, sent me this the other day. Aslan was by my side for all 3 births (technically just for the labour of Summer’s, as I had my first babe in hospital). To have this picture to match the imprint Azzy left on my heart is something that I will cherish forever.
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This is what having a doula is for me; someone to hold the edges of the space that I unabashedly take up, while capturing the nuances that string together the bigger moments. Having someone trusted to be present as witness to our birthing day truly is an investment I will never regret. Drop a 💖 if you loved your doula!!