08/06/2025
Why do I keep chasing emotionally unavailable people? 💔 If you’ve ever asked yourself this, you’re not alone, and you’re definitely not broken.
For many, chasing love that feels just out of reach isn’t about poor choices or low standards… it’s about nervous system patterns rooted in past experiences. Unpredictability, distance, and inconsistency might feel strangely familiar (and even safe) if that’s what love looked like before.
This post breaks down why this happens, what it doesn’t say about you (hint: it’s not a personal failure), and how healing your attachment wounds is possible with the right support.
If you’re ready to explore this in therapy, we’re here.
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