04/29/2026
Friendly reminder: chronic headaches are never normal.
There is a difference between expected and normal.
An occasional headache after dehydration, poor sleep, skipped meals, illness, alcohol, screens, or stress can be expected.
But headaches that keep returning should not be normalized just because your family calls them normal. Family history may explain the pattern, but it does not make chronic pain your baseline. Most people do not live with chronic headaches.
I ask patients: “How many headaches do you get per month?”
They say: “The normal amount.”
I ask: “What is normal?”
They say: “6, 8, 10, 15.”
The normal baseline is zero headache days.
Not because humans never get headaches, but because recurring head pain is a signal. It deserves a diagnosis and a plan.
Chronic daily headache means 15 or more headache days per month for over 3 months, but you do not need to reach that number before taking headaches seriously.
The root cause matters: sleep, hydration, food, hormones, migraine, vision, neck tension, jaw clenching, medication overuse, stress, environment, or another medical issue.
Sometimes context is part of the cause. I have seen chronic headaches improve after divorce or marriage counseling. That does not mean the pain was fake. It means the nervous system lives inside a real body, in a real life.
With children, I am even firmer: I do not normalize headaches in kids. A one-off headache with a clear cause can happen, but frequent, severe, new, or unexplained headaches deserve attention.
Track the pattern:
How many days per month?
Where is the pain?
What triggers it?
Nausea, light sensitivity, dizziness, vision changes, neck pain, jaw tension, numbness, weakness, or fatigue?
How often are you taking medication?
Get assessed if headaches are frequent, worsening, severe, different, affecting school, work, or sleep, or making you rely on meds often.
Urgent red flags: sudden or worst headache, head injury, fever or stiff neck, confusion, vision changes, weakness, numbness, or trouble speaking.
Headaches may be common.
Chronic headaches are not normal.
Expected does not mean normal.
Common does not mean healthy.
Pain is information.
Dr. Sina