06/15/2025
My father, “Big Ben”, had always been someone I could lean on, ask for advice, protect me from a variety of things including bad decisions lol.
He passed away many years ago, and when he passed, my whole world fell apart. My safety net dissolved, my protective sphere had shattered. I was frozen with fear on how to navigate this world without him to lean on and provide me with sound advice. It was hard to step into this new world without both of my parents.
I still find it hard to navigate at times, and empathize with others who have also lost their beloved father, especially on days that recognize them, like Father’s Day.
So to those whose fathers are still with you, hug them a little more often.
For those who are in this new world without their fathers nearby, welcome to the dead dads club. It’s a place where empathy and kindness surround those hearts that are broken, a place to feel like they’re not alone in this world.
Each day brings on a new challenge and the steps forward after loss can be very difficult. I hear you, I empathize with you and care about you. ❤️
