Kim - Mental Health Tips

Kim - Mental Health Tips Certified mental health counsellor who sees individuals & couples and offers mental health tips on social media. I earned my B.S. in Counseling Psychology.

Conseillère clinique certifiée qui soutient les adultes et les couples, et offre des conseils en santé mentale sur ses réseaux sociaux. There is no perfect recipe to healing, and each of us needs a unique combination of ingredients. However, compassion, empathy, non-judgment, and loving-kindness are necessary to the process, and I commit to bring those qualities into our interactions. My role is t

o be present to your explorations, and help you identify steps you can comfortably and safely explore. Regardless of the reason for your desire to start therapy, consent throughout is of primordial importance, and my approach is client-centered: that means I pull from an eclectic set of tools to provide a space, pace, and environment that works for you. In addition to more traditional talk therapy, I often draw from cognitive behavioral models, mindfulness, guided imagery, creative expression and art therapy, and some body-oriented techniques. A Little Background:

As a multilingual, transnational, and multicultural person who embodies social justice ideals, an appreciation for diversity is a key motivator to my understanding the unique strengths of individuals, couples, and families. I therefore seek to use my clinical skills, cultural humility, passion, and love for humanity to help effect positive social change in whichever way I can, and deeply believe that working from within leads to positive outward change. from the University of Toronto, where I pursued a double major in Biology and Forensic Science, with a minor in Psychology. I have several years of experience in the food and wine industry, in organizational development of a government agency, as an independent marketing consultant and translator, and as a private tutor and nanny, working with children and adolescents. After considering several avenues to pursue my counseling career, I proudly chose the Institute of Transpersonal Psychology (currently Sofia University), which focuses on mind, body, and soul integration, to earn an M.A. What To Expect:

As a therapist, I have had the privilege of working as a bereavement counselor at Pathways, where I assisted adult individuals through the painful, yet indiscriminately transformative journey of intense grief. I also worked at an elementary school within the Santa Clara Unified School District, where I support children ages 5 to 11. I have a particular affinity to working with grief and identity issues (specifically, cultural and multicultural identity, gender and/or sexual identity, religious/spiritual identity). In addition, I have worked with a variety of clients facing depression, anxiety, chemical and substance dependence and abuse, relationships and codependency, domestic violence, major life transitions, and various forms of acute and developmental trauma. I am happy to provide a 20-minute consultation over the phone at no cost to answer any questions you may have, and to help you book your initial appointment.

04/28/2026

K that was stressful and I’m glad it’s done.

04/27/2026

When someone treats you poorly, it’s easy to take it personally—to wonder what you did or what’s wrong with you. But most of the time, their behavior is a reflection of what’s going on inside them, not a measure of your worth. People act from their own stress, insecurities, past wounds, and emotional limits. You just happen to be in the line of fire.

That doesn’t make it okay—but it does mean it’s not about you.

So instead of asking, “Why did they do this to me?” it becomes, “What does this show me about them—and what I will or won’t tolerate?”

04/27/2026

Monday morning thoughts

04/25/2026

This trend has me stressed out - Harassing texts aren’t okay because they ignore consent and cross boundaries. When someone keeps messaging in a way that’s aggressive, unwanted, or persistent, it can create anxiety, stress, and a sense of being unsafe.

It’s also about respect—communication should be mutual, not forced. And in many places, repeated unwanted texts can even be considered harassment legally.

If it wouldn’t be okay to keep saying something to someone in person, it’s not okay to text it either.

04/25/2026

Inside Out isn’t just a kids’ movie—it’s surprisingly powerful for adults. Here’s why it:

1. It validates that “negative” emotions are necessary.
The whole arc of Joy learning the importance of Sadness hits hard as an adult. We’re often conditioned to push sadness away or “stay positive,” but the film shows that sadness is what creates connection, empathy, and healing.

2. It mirrors emotional burnout and overload
When everything in Riley’s mind starts falling apart, it reflects something a lot of adults recognize—emotional systems getting overwhelmed. The shutdown, numbness, and loss of joy? That’s not far off from how burnout can feel.

3. It captures how identity evolves over time
Those “islands of personality” collapsing is a great metaphor for what happens when life changes—moves, breakups, career shifts, becoming a parent. Adults know what it’s like to outgrow parts of themselves and feel disoriented in the process.

4. It normalizes mixed emotions
It reflects emotional complexity, where happiness and sadness can coexist.

5. It gives language to internal experiences
Even as a therapist, I see how hard it is for people to articulate what’s going on inside them. This movie externalizes it in a way that’s accessible without being simplistic. It’s basically a gentle intro to emotional literacy.

6. It hits differently if you’re a parent
Watching Riley struggle while her parents try (and sometimes fail) to understand her adds another layer. Adults see both sides—the child’s inner chaos and the parent’s limitations.

04/23/2026

When you’re burned out, your mind doesn’t slow down just because you want it to—it’s been running in overdrive for too long. Trying to “shut it off” usually backfires. What helps more is giving your mind something gentle and grounding to focus on instead of the constant mental noise.

Start simple: bring your attention to your body. Notice your breath without changing it, or feel your feet on the ground. Even placing a hand on your chest or stomach can signal a bit of safety to your system. You’re not forcing calm—you’re creating the conditions for it.

Another way to quiet the mind is to get thoughts out of your head and onto something external. Jot them down, even in messy bullet points. Burnout often comes with mental overload, and your brain is trying to hold too much at once. Writing things down tells it, “You don’t have to keep carrying this.”

And finally, lower the bar. A quiet mind during burnout doesn’t mean a completely peaceful, empty head. It might just mean a few more seconds of space between thoughts, or a slight softening of the noise. That counts. That’s where recovery begins.

04/22/2026

Loneliness isn’t just an uncomfortable feeling—it has real effects on your mental health. Humans are wired for connection, so when that’s missing, your brain can start to interpret it as a kind of threat. Over time, loneliness is linked to increased anxiety, low mood, overthinking, and even a harsher inner critic. It can make everything feel heavier and more overwhelming than it actually is.

Reaching out to a friend, even in a small way, can interrupt that cycle. A simple message or quick conversation can remind your nervous system that you’re not alone, helping you feel more grounded and supported. It doesn’t have to be deep or perfect—just a moment of connection can shift how you feel more than you might expect.

04/22/2026

1% better each day adds up!

04/22/2026

I publicly announced I was doing a Spartan a few months ago, because I thought the “accountability” would push me. The truth is, life did its thing, and other than kickboxing, I did not train how I should have. I’m sad to say I AM NOT READY but it’s never too late to start training so let’s go. The past is gone, I’ll do what I can starting today. 🙌😬🤞🏼

04/20/2026

As a therapist, small talk can feel especially draining—not because connection doesn’t matter, but because you’re wired for depth. When you spend your days holding space for meaningful, vulnerable conversations, surface-level exchanges can start to feel performative or empty. It’s not that you’re uninterested in people—you’re so interested that “How’s the weather?” just doesn’t scratch the itch. You’re used to attuning, noticing nuance, and going beyond the script, so staying at the surface can feel like holding back a more natural way of relating. In real life, that can create a quiet tension: wanting genuine connection, but feeling stuck in conversations that never quite get there.

04/19/2026

Do as I say, not as I do!

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