07/31/2024
HE KISSED ME STRETCH MARKS!
âHe kissed me stretch marks, yâ know. He did! He said they were lovely because they were a part of me, and that I was lovely.â
I canât give too much of the play away for those who have not seen it yet. But you get the gist. The truth is, I have not been aging well. What I mean by that is, I am just so damn self-conscious about aging! Everything about me has changed since The Menopause. I donât even recognize myself. But I also grew up with a mother who put me on a tomato soup and grapefruit diet when I hit puberty and really started gaining weight. I donât want to care about it as much as I do. And another truth bomb, I am frightened of getting up in front of a whole bunch of people, friends a lot of them, who havenât seen me since before Covid, because I am worried about what they will think. I really, really wish this wasnât the case but it is.
And one more truth bomb, I havenât let anyone, kiss me stretch marks â no way! But I will tell you what, I think Shirley is gobsmacked by the kindness and sweetness of Costasâ remark. âThat they were lovely because they were a part of me and that I was lovelyâ. It is where I want to get to within myself. Gosh, what a place to be, to love yourself wholeheartedly, to love everything about yourself; every wrinkle, every age spot, every stretch mark, every grey hair, oh yeah and the increasingly saggy flesh, that might be the hardest oneâŠ.but I am trying and so thank you Costas, thank you W***y Russell for writing such a thingâŠ..for appreciating what it is like to live in a society as an older woman that only focuses on keeping the aging from showing at all costs and oh what it costs!
See you soon. Friday night is pretty much sold out and Thursday is heading that way. Plenty of tickets left for Saturday, Sunday and Monday. So come early please so we have time to wine and dine you all with our homemade Greek Tapas and wine from Garry Oak Vineyards!
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