Sassy Spirit Junkie

03/08/2026

In five years, most of the people you see every day will likely be strangers again.

Your coworkers.
Your neighbours.
The people you bent over backwards trying to please.
The ones whose opinions kept you up at night.
The ones you watered while you slowly dried yourself out.

Five years from now, many of them will simply be… a memory.

Different job.
Different street.
Different circles.
Different lives.

And yet the one person who will still be here through every single chapter… is you.

So why are you shrinking yourself to fit into someone else’s temporary role in your story ?

Why are you exhausting your energy trying to be liked by people who may not even exist in your life a few seasons from now ?

Stop performing for the crowd.

Live in a way that your future self will thank you for.
Speak your truth.
Protect your peace.
Choose what feels aligned for you.

Because while people come and go

You’re the only character guaranteed to stay for the entire story.

03/07/2026

There’s a reason we’re told not to make decisions when we’re heated.

When water is boiling, it’s chaotic, moving too fast, and completely distorted. If you tried to look at your reflection in it, you wouldn’t see yourself clearly, you’d see a warped version of reality.

Our minds work the exact same way.

When we’re angry, triggered, or emotionally flooded, our thoughts are boiling. Everything feels urgent. Everything feels personal. Everything feels like it needs to be reacted to right now.

But truth doesn’t live in that state.

Anger isn’t always wrong, it can actually be a powerful signal that something matters to you. But it’s not the place where clarity lives.

Clarity comes when the emotional temperature drops.

When you pause.
When you breathe.
When you allow the water to settle.

Suddenly what felt confusing becomes obvious.
What felt personal becomes understandable.
And what felt like chaos becomes a lesson.

Not every moment in life requires an immediate reaction. Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is let the water calm.

Because the truth has always been there…
you just needed stillness to see it.

03/05/2026

You don’t get what you want.
You get what you are.

And I know that might sting a little… but stay with me.

You can want love all day long, but if you believe you’re unworthy of it, you’ll keep attracting people who mirror that belief.

You can want success, abundance, and freedom… but if your identity is still rooted in lack, doubt, or “I’ll never get ahead,” life will keep handing you situations that match that frequency.

Because the universe doesn’t respond to your wish list.
It responds to your self-concept.

Your habits.
Your standards.
Your beliefs about what you deserve.

That’s why two people can want the exact same thing and get completely different results.

One wishes.
The other becomes the version of themselves who naturally receives it.

So instead of asking,
“Why isn’t this happening for me ?”

Start asking:
“Who do I need to become to naturally attract this ?”

Do you need to become someone who sets better boundaries ?
Someone who believes they’re worthy ?
Someone who shows up with confidence instead of fear ?

Because the moment your identity shifts…
your reality has no choice but to catch up.

So don’t just chase the life you want.

Become the person who would live it. 🔥

03/03/2026

It really is that simple.🤣 So stop over thinking it 👌🏻🫶🏻

03/03/2026

Good morning sassy spirit junkies !
I came across this meme this morning and well… it’s me to the nines with my eldest son.
And sorry not sorry, I understand why it’s hard for him to focus during school.

Our schooling system was designed a long time ago for structure, obedience, and routine, not necessarily for the way real humans actually learn, grow, and experience life. Most kids are expected to sit still for hours, absorb information the same way, at the same pace, in the same environment… even though every mind works differently.

From a spiritual perspective, humans aren’t wired to just sit and memorize. We’re curious beings. We learn through movement, creativity, exploration, conversation, and experience. Our energy naturally wants to flow, question, imagine, and create meaning… not just follow instructions and repeat information.

Some kids are thinkers.
Some are builders.
Some are visionaries.
Some need movement.
Some need quiet.
Some learn by doing, not listening.

And yet the system often measures intelligence in only one narrow way.

To me, when a child struggles to focus in that kind of environment, it doesn’t always mean something is wrong with the child. Sometimes it means their spirit, their mind, and their natural way of learning just doesn’t fit inside a box that was never built for them in the first place.

As parents, I think part of our role is helping our kids remember that their curiosity, imagination, and unique way of seeing the world is actually a strength, not a flaw.

Some of the most aware, creative, and successful people were the ones who couldn’t sit still in classrooms. And even dropped out of school 🤷‍♀️

Just saying. 😌✨

03/02/2026

Latest blog alert ! 🚨

Today we piviot from life after awakening to touch base with the reality that many parents face after having children…
Not loving themselves and their bodies.

In this blog I talk about how we can recondition love for each of our insecurities and how to instill healthy thoughts and habits into our tiny humans ❤️

Check out the blog here 👇 don’t forget to follow and subscribe for future blog releases ❤️🫶🏻

Starting off, I know this blog is for life after awakening.

03/02/2026

Have you ever noticed that when you buy a new car, suddenly you see that exact model everywhere ?

It’s not that the cars magically appeared overnight — they were always there. Your brain just became tuned to notice them.

That’s the power of focus.

Our minds work like a filter. Whatever we consistently direct our attention toward begins to stand out more in our world.
When we focus on gratitude, we start noticing more things to be grateful for.
When we focus on opportunities, we begin to see doors we might have missed before.
When we focus on our strengths, those strengths grow stronger.

Now, this doesn’t mean problems aren’t real or that everyone’s circumstances are the same. Some challenges are very real, heavy, and valid. This also isn’t about pretending difficulties don’t exist.

It’s about choosing where most of your mental energy goes.

Because the truth is: what we focus on shapes how we experience our lives.

If we only focus on limitations, our world starts to feel smaller.
But when we allow ourselves to look for possibilities — even small ones — our perspective begins to expand.

Focus doesn’t change everything overnight.
But it does change what we notice, what we believe is possible, and the actions we take next.

And those small shifts… can change a lot.

02/26/2026

Good morning beautiful souls ☀️
Morning routine is officially complete ✔️
Workout done, sparkling water in hand, and I’ve had a full two hours of peace before the tiny humans wake up.

Honestly, I’ve learned the secret to a successful morning routine is doing it while everyone else is still asleep… because once the kids wake up it turns into:
“Mom where’s this ?”
“ can you help me ?”
“Mom I’m hungry.”
“Mom look at this !”
All before my brain has fully loaded for the day 🤣

So for now I’m soaking up the quiet, enjoying the calm, and mentally preparing for the morning chaos… followed by the sweet, peaceful moment when they head off to school and the house goes completely silent again.

HAVE A GREAT DAY ✨
I LOVE YOU

02/26/2026

Newest blog drop 🫳

Ever feel like you’re stuck in boredom after awakening ? Like you’re not unhappy but you’re not excited about anything either ?
Its a very common stage after awakening and today I talk about what causes that phase ❤️

Follow the link below to check it out. And don’t forget to subscribe and get email notifications of new posts ❤️

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Ildiko Giczi this one is about the phase you and I had a conversation about years ago ! ❤️ that I found myself reflecting back on earlier this week 😍

02/26/2026

One thing I’ve learned in life is if someone wants to understand you, they will.

Sometimes we think if we just explain ourselves better, say it again, or add more details, people will finally understand us.

But the truth is… people usually heard you the first time.
When someone consistently ignores what you’ve already expressed, over-communicating stops being connection and starts becoming a form of seeking validation from someone who isn’t willing to give it.

Say what you mean.
Say it clearly.
And if someone keeps ignoring it, believe the message in their actions.
And respect yourself enough to stop over-explaining.

02/24/2026

Newest blog dropped ❤️

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