02/13/2026
This Funeral Fact Friday we’re learning all about home visitations!
Did you know that before the mid-19th century, visitations being held at home were standard practice, with families washing, dressing, and laying out the deceased in the home's "parlor" for viewing. Today most families choose to have their loved one’s visitation held at a funeral home, however in some faiths and cultures, having a wake held at home is still a common practice. The local community of Sipekne’Katik and other First Nations communities, hold this tradition strongly.
Wakes are typically held at the family home, and usually last around 2-3 days. Unlike the standard visitation times that we might all be familiar with, 2-4pm and 6-8pm these visitations are open to the public 24/7 for everyone to visit right up until the time of the closing of the casket on the day of the funeral. Throughout this time, the deceased is not allowed to be left alone to ensure that their spirit is accompanied and guided during its transition to the spirit world. This means that family, friends and community members will take shifts to stay awake and be there with their loved one. A sacred fire will also be lit and tended to over the course of the wake, it is seen as a doorway to the spirit world and a way to communicate with our ancestors and the Creator. Why is the fire sacred? Because it makes people feel open, grounded and connected with people on earth and those who have moved on. Volunteers will tend the fire 24/7 in all weather conditions until the final day of visitation. This is a sacred duty, a way to honour the deceased and assist them on their journey.
As we all know the visitation is a very important time, it's for family, friends and members of the community to gather, share stories/memories, aid in simple household duties support one another and to provide essential home cooked meals. This time is for the family to grieve and not to worry about other things. These visitations provide families with the opportunity to come together for a final time, surrounded by family, love and memories; something that we as funeral care providers are proud to assist our families with.❤️