05/18/2026
Victorian Funerary Practices
The Victorian era occurred during the reign of Queen Victoria, which lasted from 1837-1901. Following the death of her husband Prince Albert in 1861, Victoria went into mourning, a period that lasted essentially for the rest of her life.
Albert had died at a young age, in his early 40s after being married to the Queen for more than 20 years. Her grief was profound and her position as the monarch of England meant she held tremendous influence over Victorian society. The Queen, would wear black for the rest of her life. Additionally, societal norms formed during this period had practices that divided morning into three distinct phases: full morning, second mourning and half mourning. The time spent in each period varied based on the closeness to the deceased. One rule was that women weren’t allowed to wear jewelry, except for black gems during the period of full morning; instead, women wore mementos, which became popular when Queen Victoria started wearing a locket with a picture of Albert and carrying a lock of his hair.
At this time, there were many common superstitions including stopping clocks at the time of death of the deceased, covering all mirrors in the home, carrying the deceased's feet first as they left the house and turning down family photos to prevent spirits from possessing the people in these pictures.
It needs mentioning that this was a simpler time, without much of the science and knowledge we possess today. Believe systems concerning grief and loss were based on a dedication to never forget a loved one and to honour their memory till death. It was a somber period, one where the death of a loved one was taken very seriously.
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