25/02/2026
đĽšThe anxiety came out of nowhere.
Racing thoughts at night. Worrying about everything.
At one point, even worrying that I was missing something I should be worrying aboutđ
It crept into my days and stopped me enjoying moments I knew I should feel grateful for.
And I had no idea it could be related to perimenopause.
And then there was rage.
Not the slow, build-up kind. The instant kind.
Someone talking too loudly on their phone.
Someone chewing with their mouth open.
One day it would tip me completely over the edge.
The next day, the same thing wouldnât bother me at all.
It made no sense.
I thought it was just me.
It wasnât.
What I didnât realise at the time was how much changing hormones can affect how we think, feel, and react.
Anxiety. Rage. That feeling of not recognising yourself.
For many women, it can be connected to whatâs happening in the body during perimenopause.
And because hormones fluctuate day to day, it explains why something can feel unbearable one day and irrelevant the next.
Once I understood that, things started to make sense.
This wonât be everyoneâs experience.
But if itâs yours, what if, instead of feeling frustrated or defeated by your symptoms, you saw them as information?
Signals. Data.
Your body letting you know that as things shift on the inside, something on the outside may need adjusting too.
Thatâs your body doing its jobâ¤ď¸
Does this resonate with you? đ