
08/22/2025
How we view ourselves, our identity,
is based on an amalgam of experiences, values, abilities, and expectations. When a meaningful part of your life is lost, self-perceptions and your place in the world may change.
It’s irrelevant if the loss was a life-long partner, the daily jog for someone who has run for 40 years now shuffling because of deteriorating joints, or loss of a dog.
Significant losses produce in a person’s identity. For example when someone loses their dog they may lose their jogging partner or there may no longer be little paws tapping on their floor. That loss is felt daily and it has become part of their life and their norm . That familiarity gives people a sense of peace and comfort and then that is gone it leaves an individual aching for that feeling.