Sex As ...

07/03/2020

S*x as anger. How do you take your anger out at your partner through s*x?

09/15/2013

S*x as aggression. How does that differ between men and women?

04/03/2013

Of course, s*x as exchange is often fun. How do each of you pr******te for the other?

03/12/2013

I would like to speak highly of S*x as Duty.

12/02/2012

And, of course, the big one. Speak of shame and ma********on.

11/30/2012

Are fear and ma********on related?

11/29/2012

How could ma********on be an expression of power?

11/25/2012

Anybody else care to wade in on this discussion?

11/24/2012

Let's continue with the exploration of ma********on. Release of tension and exploring pleasure are two valid reasons for ma********ng, but let's have a look at some of the less pretty reasons. There are times when it can be used as punishment against a partner. When combined with p**n, it can be an attempt to feel powerful when feeling powerless. It can be used to generate internal feelings of shame and guilt. It can be a statement of independence against parental and religious strictures. What other reasons?

11/23/2012

Why do people ma******te?

11/11/2012

Where would folks like to go with this? Remember, this group is about exploring the unconscious aspects of our s*xuality.

07/06/2012

Okay men, how do you use s*x as exchange? I am looking for two sides. 1. What do you give in exchange for receiving s*x? 2. What do you get in exchange for giving s*x?

06/22/2012

S*x can also be an act of exchange - one gives s*x in exchange for affection, monetary reward or security.

05/26/2012

S*x is an act of power as much as it is an act of love. It is a struggle over who gives who receives, who has or***ms and how many, and so on.

01/31/2012

There is a book. http://www.amazon.com/Accepting-Radical-Ronna-Smithrim/dp/1908293101/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1328038904&sr=8-1

This is a subversive book. It won't lead you to social or political revolt, but it will suggest overthrowing all of your current ideas about psychotherapy, personal growth and self-help. In the process, it will cause you to re-evaluate almost all of the therapies, techniques and books about self-...

01/29/2012

I have been exploring S*x as Power recently. I think power is the underlying dynamic in much of today's s*xuality.

04/15/2011

What is the difference between Pornographic and Erotic? How does a s*xual encounter described in a romance novel differ from a s*xual encounter described in Penthouse?

01/17/2011

I have a question. Does the man or woman who frequently dresses provocatively do so because their self-esteem is such that they feel their only value is in their attractiveness to the opposite s*x? I ask this as curiosity - I am NOT saying this is true.