09/13/2025
Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM). Whether you’ve heard about polyamory in passing or you’re seriously considering opening up your relationship, understanding ENM is the first step toward making informed, respectful, and emotionally sound decisions. This guide explores what ENM is (and isn’t), key considerations, its common forms, emotional ups and downs, and the foundational pillars that help it thrive.
Ethical Non-Monogamy refers to a relationship structure in which all parties consensually agree to engage in romantic or sexual connections outside of a primary relationship, or with multiple partners altogether. Unlike cheating—which is marked by secrecy, dishonesty, and betrayal—ENM is rooted in open communication, trust, and mutual agreement.
People practicing ENM agree to pursue other relationships ethically, meaning they do so with the knowledge and consent of everyone involved. This distinguishes it clearly from infidelity. In ENM, there are no hidden affairs or broken promises—just clearly discussed boundaries and agreements.
❗Important Note: ENM does not mean cheating is acceptable. Cheating, by definition, involves deception or breaking established agreements. In ENM, honesty and transparency are non-negotiable values.
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