03/03/2025
Hi all, I wanted to share my February blog here, as my website is not quite ready. I hope you enjoy the read:)
LIFE IS A CHOICE.
Full disclosure. I originally wrote this blog with the backdrop of Donald Trump’s final decision to impose tariffs on Canadian exports being instituted on February 4th and his ongoing comments that we should become the 51st state. Now we wait on tariffs, but I don’t think we can take lightly his “musings” on us becoming part of the U.S.
This has all made me think about what choices I will make moving forward myself, to make a difference. As I was thinking about individual and collective choice moving forward, my idea for this blog was born.
Life is a choice.
Some sources suggest that the average person makes about 35,000 choices per day. Assuming that most people spend around seven hours per day sleeping and thus blissfully choice-free, that makes roughly 2,000 decisions per hour or one decision every two seconds.[1]
While I’m not sure, nor can anybody really know how many decisions we actually make each day, we do know that we are faced with a never-ending stream of decisions from the moment we get out of bed in the morning.
We also know that small choices or decisions can have big consequences. Every small step or choice made may assist with developing a habit to better support or hinder your life.
Study after study supports this idea that one small, positive step can take you on a new path, helping to build consistency, resilience and better mental and physical wellbeing.
This week, I reach 10 years of sobriety. Those 10 years have been about small choices every day to keep me healthy. This might sound silly, but a great example is, I no longer buy green olives. Why? It makes me thing about martinis! I don’t drink non-alcoholic beer or wine anymore, as I know I needed to change how I behave in social settings without my alcoholic crutch. I commit every 2 weeks to a psychotherapist so I have someone to talk with about my challenges and my successes. Small choices.
So, can 10 minutes on your yoga mat each day, help you?
You bet! By dedicating a short 10 minutes each day to yoga, you can experience a wide range of benefits:
• Improved flexibility and mobility
• Increased strength and muscle tone
• Enhanced mental clarity and focus
• Reduced stress and anxiety levels. [2]
The same can be said for a short walk, a 5-minute meditation practice, climbing stairs, a quick workout or exercise routine, or taking a few deep breaths and stretching your body. There are also short activities that you can do to support your mental health as well such as writing out a quick list of what you are grateful for, short self-massages, enjoying a cup of herbal tea; all are examples of slowing down to give your brain an opportunity to bounce back.
And now, I'm circling back on moving forward as a Canadian. Small choices. A number of years ago, I made the decision to not buy garlic from China. I will forgo garlic and have changed where I shop, in order to buy Canadian garlic. Sound silly? Maybe. But it’s one way I know I’m not supporting a regime with a horrific human rights record, when we don’t have that choice on a lot of other items. It also supports local!
We can make those same small decisions today to buy Canadian. I will actively choose to not buy American wherever possible even it means I don’t get green onions; I get Vidalia onions instead. I will check labels, and signage. I can rethink where I vacation. And I will consider my own political choices around policies that support the development of Canada, including being self-sufficient and growing our opportunities outside of a relationship with the U.S.
Small choices can make a difference whether it’s for my personal health and welfare or to support our collective whole. Small choices and small steps build consistency, resilience, and positive change. Make those small choices, take those small steps to take yourself, and perhaps all of us, to a better place.
[1]How Many Decisions Do We Make Each Day?, Eva M. Krockow Ph.D., Psychology Today Online
[2]www.yogawithtet.com/blog/the-power-of-10