
05/30/2025
I don't have a great record of finishing what I start. It's especially true of projects that I decide to build on my own.
There are currently 3 partially finished book drafts, 5 courses in various stages of completion, and 8 different pickles fermenting... but nothing is done. Nothing is ready to share with the world. It's all in process.
It's taken some time to figure this out, but what I have learned about myself is that I do my best when I collaborate.
So when the Changing Work invitation to explore whether it is possible to be friends with co-workers landed in my inbox, I jumped at the chance. Not just because I found the question intriguing. Not just because the mission to change work through conscious leadership resonated with me. Mostly because I wouldn't be doing it alone.
This co-authorship journey has taught me so much. From Lisa Thomas-Tench I learned to strip away the excess so the gold of the story shines true. From Natalie Lapre I learned strategies to amplify the useful messages. From Scott Shute I learned the value of a well placed poem. From Nicholas Whitaker I learned the impact of showing up with vulnerability. From Aimee Serene I learned how to find grace in the process. And from my awesome podmates Bhavani Mantena Christy Sando Faith McGown Wendy McHenry Mary McDowall Lori Kirkland, CCXP Weike lu I learned that writing does not have to be lonely.
This book is rich with lessons about emotional intelligence, psychological safety, the value that arises when leaders model vulnerability, and so much more. It's now available! You can get your copy at the link in my story.