Healing with Melissa

Healing with Melissa Spiritual Life Guide We are all brought here to serve this earth. The question is, how BIG do you want to serve it? Do you want it to be one of LOVE and LIGHT?

And what do you want your footprint to be when you are gone? Better Days is an organization of passionate people helping other discover their light and share it with those around them and in this world, teaching each and everyone of us to keep shining your light!! In the toughest of times, a simple gaze to the sky reminds us that we are not alone and that there is so much light out there. Keep Shining

Really looking forward to sharing this conversation I had with  about the connection we share as women to our voices and...
07/19/2023

Really looking forward to sharing this conversation I had with about the connection we share as women to our voices and our wombs.

Finding my voice is daily work for me. A little thing here or there that matter to my Soul yet I push away because I don’t want to be “too much” or an “inconvenience” is a form of self abandonment.

Deepening in the voice / womb connection has helped me stay true to myself, even when it’s uncomfortable.

This event is happening next week and it’s free to attend. There are some amazing speakers I’m looking forward to checking out.

Link in bio to register for free

One day this hair won’t be red anymore, it will be fused with silvers/greys/ & goldsOne day my womb won’t bleed anymore,...
07/11/2023

One day this hair won’t be red anymore, it will be fused with silvers/greys/ & golds

One day my womb won’t bleed anymore, the red River will cease & dry

One day my body will wrinkle & softly whisper the wisdom it’s acquired

In many native traditions it is believed our hair is an extension of our Spirit & that is only cut only when there is a death.

For me, my hair has always been an interesting mirror for me. The thing I used to hate the most as a child (because I was teased) to then love it later in my teens (would cut or & donate to make wigs for kids with Cancer) to then over indulging beauty in my 20ies & 30ies (keeping it long but always hiding it in a ponytail)

My relationship with my hair has taught me how strong I am. How generous my body is & my beauty doesn’t radiate from my physical appearance, but from my heart

Last year before turning 40 I did a massive cut. 15+ inches gone. Released it in a scared fire to connect with Spirit & this new me.

This weekend my girl cut it for me (she’s amazing btw - go see her in TO) and we got 9.5 inches.

9.5 inches in a year… I knew my hair grew fast but that surprised me.

I took the hair home and to my alter as I will be offering it back to the earth and what I heard while at my alter was to do this every year in my 40ies and bring the hair to my Paqarina (the River closest to where I was born) every fall.

What an exciting request! I absolutely will do this.

It feels like a beautiful energetic reset, releasing the old and start fresh again new. Celebrating the progress of how far I’ve come and acknowledging all I had to let go to become it.

Who I am today is vastly different than who I was years ago. I’m in awe of myself.

Do you feel this way when cutting your hair? Or is there other things you body with you body that feels this way for you? Let me know below

My love affair with the moonMy love affair with the earthMy love affair with myselfAll separate, yet all intertwined. Re...
07/03/2023

My love affair with the moon

My love affair with the earth

My love affair with myself

All separate, yet all intertwined.

Reflecting the perfect timing of my blessings. Reminding me of my inner emotional cycles.

Amplifying my Light and Shadow

Taking my tears and pain

Holding me closely. Speaking to me always.

Life without you is now a distant memory. Grateful for our connection once again. To live in harmony with you, your Light and all your parts.

Through you, I found me. I found sleepless night. I found my deepest fears and most glorious pleasure. I feel you and hear you call out to me, your sweet child.

I don’t think many can feel like me. So deeply, so openly, so giving. I feel so much it hurts sometimes.

You remind me of my Divinity and cyclical nature. Reminding me I’m forever changing yet always returning whole.

Grandmother Moon bless us on this full moon to see our Divinity & to be open to evolve in the ways our Souls call.

May this prayer reach all those in need. May they feel the depth of our Love and illuminating Light.

May we all feel so deeply loved and connected to you.

Last night I stayed up watching the moon move through the sky. Just before 11pm her piercing light poured onto the end o...
06/29/2023

Last night I stayed up watching the moon move through the sky.

Just before 11pm her piercing light poured onto the end of my bed with a sweet whisper to come lay in her light.

I moved all my pillows, journal, & book to be with her.

The stillness of her beauty captured my heart. She told me that my life is art. That my tears, worries, and fears are to be honoured and carried through the night & will melt in her moonlight.

She reminded me of the love I seek is within me.

Tears flowed as my body integrated her wisdom.

My body wide open, all I could feel was this deep trust and love that this is true and that all I’ve ever wanted was you. You to show me the way and hold me through the loneliness I’ve felt for so long. You to make love to me with your light and return me to the source of all Creation. My heart. My Love. My Soul.

Around 230am the moon was just behind a tree, playing peek-a-boo with me. My body began to prepare for rest.

She offered me space to let things from the past melt away. Past beliefs, past thoughts, past experiences, past pain.

The cycle is complete and now I am a new. I can meet myself wholeheartedly in this new way of begin.

I can own the gifts, keep the treasures, give & receive from a place of abundance and overflow.

I cried so many tears for all the women who have cried alone like I have. I cried tears of sorrow for all the women who believed like I have that we have to do this alone. I cried tears of power calling out to these women that I want to serve you. You don’t have to do this alone and I’m here to support you.

Sisters, it’s time. The energy of Heaven on Earth is asking us to choose. Choose new thoughts, choose new beliefs, choose a new way of being. Choose yourself above all else. Choose to heal yourself so the future generations can live in harmony.

The choice begins within. The choice needs to happen now and in every day. Choose heaven. Choose yourself.

My heart is so available to support you in creating this heaven on earth that begins within.

I am currently available for in person or distant generational healing, womb healing and 1:1 work.

Visit my website (link in bio) and book a call to begin.

Thank you to the beautiful sisters who came to the healing circle tonight. So much gratitude to you. Gathering with othe...
06/27/2023

Thank you to the beautiful sisters who came to the healing circle tonight. So much gratitude to you. Gathering with others is such a beautiful thing my Soul loves to do. Building community & connections within community is truly one of my superpowers, I just love doing it & seeing what unfolds within it.

Experiencing the energy of tonight’s gathering unfold all day was so lovely. Tuning in this morning alongside the pouring rain & feeing the energetics begin to communicate & share is always one of my favourite parts of creating these intuitively led events. I only ever get glimpses of the vision & allow Spirit to lead the rest. I knew tonight was going to be special based off what was felt this morning.
The connections between what’s shared and what unfolds is always so beautiful to witness. A role I hold dear to my 💜

This evening had a theme of village and community. It highlighted the disconnect with our mothers & also showed our connection WITH Mother Earth too.

We had women of various ages and backgrounds packed with their ancestors wisdom & cheers. We came to the alter with beautiful intentions that will blossom over the next year.

The connection between mother and daughter is a potent one. There’s so much more here to explore. It’s a medicine I’m very called to work with right now. I hear the call loud and clear.

I’m so grateful and excited to be able to serve in this way. How special that I get to use my life to be in service to creating heaven on earth? Thank you to all those who trust me to be your guide. It’s an honour I hold dearly.

After the event was complete I went for a walk by the lake. It’s important to ground the energy & also cleanse my field before returning home. What unfolded was beyond what my little mind could imagine.

As I strolled so slowly down the paths near the lake, Spirit took over me. I walked with such intention, feeling every step on the earth. I listened to the most beautiful music that invited my Soul to align even more with my highest timeline. I anchored in so much light, I literally ended up at the Lighthouse (this is not where I started my walk but was called there & could not deny it).

Con’t…

Can you let yourself feel?The sting in your heart? the collapsing of your shoulders? The burning in your yoni? The tight...
06/26/2023

Can you let yourself feel?

The sting in your heart? the collapsing of your shoulders? The burning in your yoni? The tightening of your throat and chest?

Can you let yourself feel the explosive rage? The waves sadness? The undeniable guilt and shame?

Can you let yourself feel or do you try and distract from the pain? Gaslighting yourself out of the experience by brushing it off & questioning your feelings.

When we have an emotional response to a situation or person, our body has a chemical response that lasts 90 seconds.

90 seconds, that’s it. That’s all you have to do is feel for 90 seconds.

Sometimes for me, 90 seconds feels like a life sentence. It’s so unbearable I have to spill that energy out in an unhealthy way.

Understanding our bodies and how they respond to things is very supportive in our journey of healing. Knowing that 90 seconds is all an emotion (energy in motion) needs to run through the body we can begin to build our tolerance and our ability to hold sensation in our body increases. We begin to learn how to hold the emotions (energy in motion) and also know when they are compete. This is also important because if the chemical response lasts 90 seconds, that means anything beyond that is a choice to continue in a story.

This is the point of power.

After the 90 seconds has passed, we now get to choose. We can choose to finish the emotional cycle or to continue in a mental narrative of what’s happening.

Sometimes that choice is easier said than done. And that doesn’t mean you can’t try again and again and again until you get it.

That’s why it’s a PRACTICE because we must be devoted to continuing to turn back to ourselves and our truth no matter how many times we miss the mark (eg. riding the 90 second wave w/o attaching to a story).

Understanding our emotions and how we experience them in the body is some of the beautiful work we explore inside the womb awakening 1:1 private container. We learn to regulate and allow our nervous system to experience the emotion moving through it and we can come to the other side which is stillness and peace.

Learning to care for ourselves doesn’t have to be done alone.

Continued…

Join us for a FREE Alliance weekend June 30th to July 2nd in Port Credit to support Indigenous Artisans and Indigenous I...
06/24/2023

Join us for a FREE Alliance weekend June 30th to July 2nd in Port Credit to support Indigenous Artisans and Indigenous Initiatives and in respect of the First Peoples of the lands we reside on.

Events facilitated by:

, Laurie Minor, Theresa McGregor, Geraldine McManus,

100% of all proceeds from any sales, donations/fundraising will be donated to Indigenous Initiatives:

Cathy’s Initiative: Mohawk Village Memorial Park—honouring residential schools
Laurie’s Initiative: TBA
Theresa’s Initiative: Water Walkers
Geraldine’s Initiative: Museum for Dakota Oyate
Matses Tribe Chief Daniel Manquid Jimenez Huanán and his community and the
Q’ero Paqos

Why Alliance Weekend?

Alliance Weekend was created to bring awareness to the ongoing suppression of Indigenous people in Canada, the lands in which we reside. Thousands of Indigenous people in Canada DO NOT have access to clean water, ongoing GENOCIDE of Murdered and Missing Indigenous Women, Girls and 2 Spirited Individals, Daily discoveries of unmarked graves from Residential Schools, Arrests and Violent treatment of Land Defenders, Extrobent cost of food on Reserves, Nature destroyed by Dams, Pipelines, Oil Sands, Industry, Mik’maq Fishing Crisis, and Colonization of Traditional Indigineous Ways.

As we work with medicine from South America, we have also formed alliances with the Matses Tribe and Q’ero Paqos to ensure sacred reciprocity and that medicine is being collected ethically.

Sign up for any day or for the entire weekend. Camping is available and optional. There will be vendors, fundraising prizes and more.

If you know of any Indigenous vendors, please share with them as vending is free. We are also looking for a food truck. Please feel free to share this invite with your community.

Organized by

Sign up at: shamansisters.com

My life is a vassal of healing. Healing the pain and cries of the women in my lineage. Altering our DNA through every te...
06/22/2023

My life is a vassal of healing.

Healing the pain and cries of the women in my lineage.

Altering our DNA through every tear and pain that’s felt. Releasing the density in our bloodline so that the future generations don’t need to carry it.

Recently I’ve been called by my maternal grandmother to heal within the maternal.

What a powerful ask.

Since beginning this intentional healing of the maternal line, it’s been deep and fast. The line needs me and is supporting me along. It’s a deep and humble call.

As their pain leaves my body, I don’t feel alone in it. I go deep in it knowing my life has prepared me for this moment.

This is why I’m here, this is what we came to do. To be good ancestors. To clear the pain they felt. I chose this.

Last night I touched into some deep spots. Pain I’ve felt for years now understanding it was never mine alone.

From as young as I remember, I used to cry alone in my room. Feeling alone was a natural state of being for me. Last night, the depth of this pain came forward to be expressed. The sounds and tears that came out of me were definitely not my own. I heard the cries of my ancient grandmothers release from deep inside my being.

Their pain in mine.

To be a good ancestors means to take responsibility for our lives and everything in it. This is courageous work, especially if you’ve been through a lot in your life.

Generational Healing is a powerful way to tap in and unlock the healing of your lineage from a place of so sovereignty and self honouring.

Your ancestors want you to live the embodiment of their prayers. To be free, to live and give Love.

I’m currently available for in person or distant generational healing sessions.

Feeling the call to heal is one thing, answering it is another all together.

DM me when you’re ready to answer the call and heal what you’ve come here to heal for you and your lineage (past and future)

Life on this is so magical. My bleed started 3 days early today just to align with the solstice. I went in ceremony this...
06/21/2023

Life on this is so magical.

My bleed started 3 days early today just to align with the solstice.

I went in ceremony this morning to express gratitude and thanks for life here on earth and another turning of the wheel.

I pulled a card from my Celtic Tree Oracle deck asking for a message for this next turning of the wheel and this is what I got. The trees name significantly stood out to me (if you know you know) and the message was so potent and clear I wanted to share it with you all.

This tree governs the winter solstice, which is a half turn of the wheel from where we are now.

It offers protection from situations, people and things that are not for your highest good. It invites in more ecstasy and bless. More creative expression and to w**d out all the thoughts and beliefs that do not align with your Higher Self (totally the deep work I’ve been in recently).

It offers a deeper trust in your discernment and intuition which I absolutely love because I still doubt my intuition sometimes.

Would love to hear if this card resonates for you too!

Aho! And so it is.

So grateful for every client that steps forward into one of the containers I hold. This week was a beautiful reminder of...
06/16/2023

So grateful for every client that steps forward into one of the containers I hold.

This week was a beautiful reminder of the power to go within, to witness our parts and to love them tenderly.

I’m always the first client. My medicine is to show you all the ways you look for things outside of you that is already within. This is my medicine to offer because it is the medicine I’ve been initiated through on my own path. The work I share comes from firsthand experience. I understand your pain and see what’s awaiting you as well.

I am calling forward three courageous women who are ready to embody their Souls essence & wisdom.

I have openings in my introductory 6 week womb awakening program. This is a private 1:1 container where we will explore the conditioned programming around ourselves as women and womb carriers with an emphasis of exploring the traumas and gifts that was passed through the maternal lineage. It’s truly beautiful work. Women are changing their way of being, how they relate to themselves and the world. We are exploring some really beautiful places as each session is intuitively and energetically guided.

DM me to start a conversation if this feels something you are drawn to.

Much Love 💕

Sisters,  I’ve been feeling your call to gather in ceremony with other sisters and I’d love to invite you to a healing c...
06/15/2023

Sisters,

I’ve been feeling your call to gather in ceremony with other sisters and I’d love to invite you to a healing circle for women on Monday June 26th from 7-9pm at the Aura Room in Mississauga.

This sister circle was birthed from the potent messages of our ancestors reminding us we do not have to do this alone. It was never intended to be this way and it’s time to fuse the life force energy we all hold back together in community.

The ancient ones knew the power of prayer in community. Our ancestors would gather to sing, drum, pray, celebrate and heal in community and I’d like to offer that to us on June 26th, 2023.

Come and bring your prayers to the alter to be witnessed, held, and seen. Come awakening the connection we all share with each other and the earth.

DM to register

Sisters,I’ve been hearing your calls and desires to gather in sacred space with each other.The ancestors ask us to come ...
06/13/2023

Sisters,

I’ve been hearing your calls and desires to gather in sacred space with each other.

The ancestors ask us to come together, to heal, to share, to connect, to commune.

They wish for us to give, to grieve, to find ourselves in each other, to transmute and to be reborn in community once again, just as it was in ancient ways.

I’d love to invite you into ceremony with me on Monday June 26th, right after summer solstice.

Come and lay yourself on the inner alter within community. We were never designed to do this alone.

Your pain is my pain. Your joy is my joy.

Join me from 7-9pm on June 26th for the first sister circle at .auraroom where we will be looking at the pain that’s ready to cleared from your maternal lineage.

This is a sacred space being held for all womb carriers who wish to be in community with each other.

Comment below for the link to register. Space is limited to 10

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