11/10/2025
How I Prepare for a session…
When I first started practicing massage therapy, the long days of physically demanding work weren’t easy. It didn’t take long before I struggled with fatigue and begun absorbing toxic energy from patients. This is natural, and how energy flows between people. It often manifested in me as joint pain and headaches.
For energetically aware people it is really helpful to develop energetic hygiene skills and boundaries. These two skills go hand-in-hand to protect your health and avoid burnout.
I personally have a preparatory routine before I start my day, before and after each patient, and a closing routine before I end my day.
Some of my professional boundaries include:
- Adhere to a schedule that meets MY needs (not working too early or too late, not working on days off, time for snacks and rest)
-Referring patients who I know I can’t help, for whatever reason
-Embodying my role as an educator & facilitator of healing, taking no credit or blame for any outcome
Aside from an early bedtime, I practice Qigong & Meditation to keep my body, energy and mind attuned day-to-day, but when working with patients I include the following ritual:
- Spend some time in meditation to settle any distracting thoughts and emotions from my personal life
- Before each session I perform a specific Qigong meditation to help me establish a sacred space in the treatment room
- I end each session in a way that helps the patient and I gently disconnect from each other’s energy
In retrospect, without these practices I would never have lasted this long in my career without chronic burnout or serious health & financial problems.
If you are in a helping profession, and feel that this sort of energetic ritual might help you when working with patients/clients, I would be happy to teach you.
We need all the tools we can get.
Thanks for reading,
Nancy