BPDRelatable

12/29/2025

The four subtypes of borderline personality disorder, petulant, discouraged/quiet, impulsive & self-destructive. It is very possible to fluctuate between all subtypes or have a primary subtype. This just helpa understand where you stand, and breaks down the symptoms and characteristics ✨

12/29/2025

I wish more people understood this, it’s not just a “normal” emotion like it is for you, it’s the emotion you feel x1000 to the point it consumes and debilitates me.

12/29/2025

maturing is also realizing that seeking “revenge” only hurt me in the end. I never felt good for hurting others back, and it hindered my healing.

12/29/2025

☹️🫶🏻

12/29/2025

12/29/2025

baby steps. 🫶🏻

12/29/2025

Imagine being bitten by a snake, and instead of focusing on healing from the poison, you chase the snake to understand why it bit you to prove that you didn't deserve it.

12/29/2025

Not my usual post, but my friend’s mom lost her home early morning on boxing day. Over 30 residents have been displaced, and they currently only have temporary shelter until January 1st.

Her mom lost everything including irreplaceable childhood photos and memories. This is an incredibly devastating time, and any support would mean the world. Please don’t feel any pressure to donate sharing this is just as helpful.

I’m hopeful that we can come together as a community to support them and help rebuild during this heartbreaking time. Thank you for reading and for any kindness you’re able to offer 🤍

https://gofund.me/4ec527d95

12/29/2025

Not my usual post, but my friend’s mom lost her home early this morning. Over 30 residents have been displaced, and they currently only have temporary shelter until January 1st.

Her mom lost everything including irreplaceable childhood photos and memories. This is an incredibly devastating time, and any support would mean the world. Please don’t feel any pressure to donate sharing this is just as helpful.

I’m hopeful that we can come together as a community to support them and help rebuild during this heartbreaking time. Thank you for reading and for any kindness you’re able to offer 🤍

https://www.gofundme.com/f/xq23u2-hotel-fire

News article: https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/motel-fire-nanaimo-bc-displaces-residents-9.7028665

Hi I'm Jason Millar and my mother in-law lived in a hotel in Nanaimo BC and last night around 2 am the fire br… Jason Millar needs your support for Hotel fire

12/29/2025

Not my usual post, but my friend’s mom lost her home early this morning. Over 30 residents have been displaced, and they currently only have temporary shelter until January 1st.

Her mom lost everything, including irreplaceable childhood photos and memories. This is an incredibly devastating time, and any support would mean the world. Please don’t feel any pressure to donate, sharing this is just as helpful.

I’m hopeful that we can come together as a community to support them and help rebuild during this heartbreaking time. Thank you for reading and for any kindness you’re able to offer 🤍

https://www.gofundme.com/f/xq23u2-hotel-fire

News article:
https://www.cbc.ca/news/canada/british-columbia/motel-fire-nanaimo-bc-displaces-residents-9.7028665

Hi I'm Jason Millar and my mother in-law lived in a hotel in Nanaimo BC and last night around 2 am the fire br… Jason Millar needs your support for Hotel fire

12/27/2025

crazy how trauma can shape the way your brain thinks, reacts and responds.

12/27/2025

One of the most helpful things my therapist explained to me is that when I ghost people, take a long time to respond, or disappear even from people I care about, it isn’t because I don’t value them.

It’s because my nervous system experiences connection as pressure instead of comfort. When I’m overwhelmed, even small interactions can feel like demands I don’t have the capacity to meet.

My body and brain get exhausted, and I go quiet. I’m not choosing distance, I’m trying to survive. I’m sorry.