Vaishnavi Swaminathan

12/23/2025

05/11/2025

Understanding attachment theory can be a game-changer in how we navigate love and connection. These two chats show the emotional shift from anxious attachment—marked by fear, overthinking, and uncertainty—to secure attachment, where there’s trust, clarity, and calm.
This kind of emotional healing doesn’t happen overnight. It’s a process of deep self-awareness, unlearning old patterns, and choosing relationships that feel safe and reciprocal. The transition is quiet, but powerful.
If you’re doing the work to move from anxiety to emotional stability—this post is for you. You can rewrite your attachment story.

05/07/2025

04/15/2025

Ever had a recurring dream? Or a dream that made you pause and think? There might be some wisdom there- your mind is trying to solve a problem for you. Pay attention.
Counselling involves talking openly about dreams. DM to get in touch.

04/08/2025

Here are 5 Practical Ways to Move Through Grief. Save this post if you’re grieving—or love someone who is. Healing is not linear, but it is possible.
You don’t have to do it alone.
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03/10/2025

Hi 👋🏻🌱
I’m officially reintroducing myself after my recent accomplishments! I’m now accepting clients for virtual counselling sessions. Please go through my post or DM to know more about my approach and areas of focus.


Vaishnavi Swaminathan

11/23/2023

07/17/2023

And this remains as the core attachment need being unmet.

This is what Gabor Mate speaks in his video: Attachment vs Authenticity.

https://youtu.be/l3bynimi8HQ

06/26/2023

https://awaken.com/2013/07/the-individual-psychology-of-alfred-adler/

A presentation of The Individual Psychology of Alfred Adler by Karen John at the Belonging & Significance, ASIIP Conference, April 2011. I. In this theoretical framework, behaviour is viewed as: A. Purposeful, goal directed, self-determined. We humans set our own goals and determine

01/14/2023