
04/29/2025
WISDOM + GUIDANCE FROM ELDERS
“Down, down down into the darkness of the grave
Gently they go, the beautiful the tender, the kind;
Quietly they go, the intelligent, the witty, the brave.
I know. But I do not approve. And I am not resigned.”
-Edna St. Vincent Millay
February 22, 1892 – October 19, 1950
When I speak with many Pink Zones women—those who’ve walked more miles on this earth, gathering wisdom —certain common truths rise to the surface.
Top 2 to share for these times:
1/ They know exactly what they don’t approve of.
Not in a judgmental way, but with clarity that comes from:
• HOLDING A BIRDS EYE VIEW- seeing the bigger picture
• KNOWING THEMSELVES- potent self-knowledge +attunement
• BEING A BOUNDARY BOSS- knowing how to draw firm, unapologetic boundaries. They know their Needs, Preferences, Desires, Limits, Deal Breakers
And most importantly?
2/ They are not resigned.
I’d love to hear what else should be added to this list. Any thoughts?