05/21/2025
WOLVES!! What can we learn from them?
Let's talk about our local furry, four legged, ancient, wild friend, canis lupis, because it just feels like a Wolf kinda day.
If you've watched any nature documentary, you'll know that wolves are all about family and loyalty. They're social, they work cooperatively together, mate for life, raise pups together, and care for their pack like a tight-knit team.
In life, we tend to go farther, have more success and satisfaction when we build strong, supportive bonds. Loyalty, teamwork, showing up for one another. In business, they say "it's lonely at the top" and while it CAN be, it's so much better when you know you've got people in your corner that have your back, and when they know you've got theirs.
Studies show having a variety of social relationships can reduce stress and heart-related risks. Strong social ties are even linked to a longer life. On the other hand, lone-wolves report experiencing poorer health, depression, and increased risk of early death.
Your pack can be family, colleagues, networking group, and even neighbours. There are a multitude of options out there so think outside the box (I have a pack of fellow cosplayers that I'd fight tooth and nail to support).
Demonstrate love and loyalty for your pack through small, daily actions - no 80's style grandiose gestures here. Things like:
* be on time
* keep promises
* listen without distractions (put the phone down)
* make space for others, asking for their opinion
* schedule quality time
* share meals
* be there when it matters
* tell people "I care about you" (in your own authentic way, don't assume they know)
Any other small gestures I missed that you do for your pack on the daily? Let me know!
Photo by Thomas Bonometti on Unsplash