Petrabilities Counselling & Hypnotherapy

01/12/2025

Be the Eagle!

12/11/2024

Grounding and Earthing is Key to better health.
With Love and Light, Petra

10/27/2024

It's all about ACCEPTANCE! If you really wish to understand how to CREATE a more peaceful existence...THIS IS worth a watch!
With Love and Ascension Light Always,

09/12/2024

Forgiveness is SO important! Don't forget to forgive yourself first.
With Love and Forgiving Light,

My mother once told me,

“If someone hurts you, forgive them, but never forget what they’ve done.”

For years, I carried those words with me, a silent reminder as I navigated new friendships and relationships. At first, it seemed simple. But over time, it became exhausting. Offering kindness and trust only to be met with betrayal took its toll. Admiring someone, only to discover they’d been speaking ill of me behind my back, left a deep sting.

One day, tired and frustrated, I asked her,
“Do they even deserve my forgiveness?”

She smiled softly, folding the laundry she’d been working on—a daily task she did without complaint.

“Child, everyone deserves forgiveness. If someone wrongs you once, forgive them. If they hurt you again, give them another chance. But if they betray you a third time, then it’s time to forgive yourself.”

Confused, I must’ve furrowed my brow because she set down the clothes, gently taking my hands.

“Forgive yourself for believing in them. Forgive yourself for trusting too easily. Forgive yourself for giving them that second or third chance when you thought they’d change. And most importantly, forgive yourself enough to let go—of hatred, of revenge, and the weight of your past.”

The next morning, I found my mother sitting quietly, tears falling as she stared at an old photo. Her closest friend of fifteen years had betrayed her trust. I sat beside her and asked if she was angry. With a deep breath and a familiar smile, she shook her head.

“My heart has no space for hatred. I don’t deserve to carry that weight. I’ve forgiven her, but that doesn’t mean I’ve forgotten. The next time she sees me smiling, despite everything, she’ll know who truly suffered.”

Wiping her eyes with the handkerchief I’d made her for Mother’s Day years ago, she added,
“The greatest gift you can give to someone who’s hurt you is to show them you’ve moved on. Let them witness the life they could never break. We only get one chance at this, so don’t waste it carrying the pain they left behind. Let them see what they lost—and how, in their own way, they made you stronger.”

In that moment, I understood. Without her wisdom, I might still be held captive by burdens that were never mine to carry.

✍️ Unknown

09/03/2024

Do you think you have changed? Perhaps become 'softer?'
Pick you battles...let the small stuff go...
With Love and Healing Light,

Be proud of you 💚

08/24/2024

Truth right there!
With Love and Light,

Don't always rush to rescue others from the fallout of their mistakes,
For in doing so, you may deprive them of a valuable chance to learn and grow.
The kindest thing you can do is sometimes to step aside,
And let them face the consequences of their actions, to let them take the ride.

For it's in experiencing the results of their choices that they'll find,
The wisdom and strength that comes from navigating life's twists and turns in time.
If you always save them from the pain, they'll never know,
The value of resilience, the power of learning from their mistakes, and growing slow.

So let them stumble, let them fall, let them rise again,
For in doing so, they'll discover their own inner strength, their own voice, their own way to mend.

~ 𝓙𝓸𝓾𝓻𝓷𝓮𝔂 𝓸𝓯 𝓛𝓲𝓯𝓮

07/23/2024

I thought this would be a nice one to Share!
With Love and Ascension Light Always,

05/25/2024

I took a workshop Certification with this Amazing man....soooo much respect.
It was called Compassionate Enquiry....
It's worth a watch ... I just learned something new about MS and ALS
With Love and Ascension Light Always,