10/30/2025
The Paradox of healing work for men -
In my own experience, without a warrior approach to healing and growth it won’t happen.
This work in its nature requires a delicate, nuances, and often soft approach…
Accessing the layers of our hearts and the unhealed boy within is a complex and precious.
However, what I have experienced is that there must be a devotional Warrior Spirit that comes alive and says: “I am going to do this work like my life depends on it.”
That is if the man wants to experience true transformation.
I do believe in reincarnation, but I don’t believe that we get to live this exact life again.
Sure, perhaps the lessons, but this one life is unique.
It is sacred.
We are here to learn lessons, and the lessons I currently chose to learn or that of a man’s experience, and in a man’s body.
Some of my greatest challenges have been developing and embodying my own inner Warrior.
The Lover archetype always came naturally to me.
In a world where men are being told they should simply soften up, I believe this message is an important one.
Approach yourself, your healing, and the various parts of you with the utmost compassion and grace,
AND
Be ruthless with your devotion, your consistency, and when showing up to meet yourself and this work time and time again.
When you fall, get back up.
When you slip, try again.
When you don’t want to do it, do it anyways.
Ask for help.
Bottom line: Command your inner Warrior when it comes to how dedicated you will be to your path of healing and growth.
Paradoxically, the nature of the work is gentle, but its approach is not.
The spiritual path to an embodied life as a man and all its fruits is not always a pretty one. Often it is not.
And your resolve and determination is needed to see the journey through.
