05/27/2026
So many of us go into birth with a plan. And when it doesn’t happen that way, we’re left carrying this weight - like we failed somehow.
But wanting to feel in control of your birth isn’t unreasonable. And grieving when it doesn’t go as planned isn’t ungrateful.
You can love your baby and still feel sad about how they arrived. Both can be true. 🩵
Did your birth also not go as planned? I’d love to hear your story 💬