12/21/2025
Happy Solstice ☀️ 🌚
We’ve entered into the time of Major Snow – dà xuě – on the 24-point calendar, deep in the energy of winter and kidneys these days.
I’ve noticed people wrestling with the paradox of slowing down in the darkness and moving into the brightness of community during this time. The questions sound like:
“Should I, or should I not, go to the party?”
“Am I isolating, or am I taking care of myself?”
“Am I filling my cup, or am I emptying my cup?”
These questions are relevant as we arrive on the cusp of the winter solstice in the northern hemisphere. They are accounting questions, and they are reminders that winter is a season of community care. They boil down to “do I have enough in my stores to share with others, or do I need people to share their stores with me?”
Both emptying and filling the cup are necessary — a cup too empty can’t pour, a cup too full wastes its bounty.
It’s my hope that in this dark season, surrounded by light inside your home, you are able to be quiet enough to listen for the needs of those around you and safe enough to have needs of your own. While Winter presents us with the proverbial fear that Spring will never come again, deep down in the centre of us, we know that it will.