09/25/2025
Are you taking time?
OR
Is there not enough time?
Which phrase feels more empowering?
Either you are a slave to time and everyone else’s needs, which will drain you, I can guarantee that. Or, you can make the choice to set aside time for yourself, whether that’s a walk on the beach, a massage, exercise, meditation, journaling, yoga, eating a meal from scratch, going to bed early, whatever it is you need. The truth is, there is never enough time to do everything on your list, and there are urgent matters and deadlines that are not in your control, but, not every minute of the day is determined by someone else. The beneficially ironic thing is that when you look after yourself better, which takes time away from other things and people, you can show up brighter, and give back more to others in your life and work than if you just kept your foot on the gas peddle. It’s not our innate instinct though is it!?
I’ll give you an example of what just happened to me this morning. I work earlier on Thursday mornings and my husband is away for work, so I have to get my 2 young daughters up, dressed, fed, lunches made, and then to their points of care before my work day starts. I was also in the middle of a sourdough bread process so had to shape the dough this morning. Meanwhile, I have to get myself ready for work and feed myself too. I got it all done but I could feel the adrenaline surging through my blood on my way to work.
I arrive at work at Total Body Health (), and there are a million things I could do when I got to work, which was tempting. But, I made the choice to take some time for myself. I work right across from a beautiful beach in Cordova Bay and it is a gorgeous, sunny morning. So, I decided to take a walk to the beach. I got my feet in the sand, in the water and felt the sun on my face. What a transformation I felt!!! I walked back feeling calm, grounded, serene and blissful. And this only took about 15 minutes.
Make the choice for you and for others to look after you, it’s yours to make!!