01/28/2026
Are there areas in your life where what you desire sits on the other side of stepping through discomfort?
The truth is, I didn’t have to have surgery. I was pain free the majority of the time & could do most things without too much limitation.
But my foot acted up, I could only wear runners, & it was degenerating.
I postponed it for years, dreading the surgery, the 3-month recovery & the uncertainty of the outcome.
But I didn’t want to mediocrity. I wanted freedom. I wanted optimal function.
So I stepped into considerable discomfort to buy me that freedom.
This is where many of us settle.
So often, it isn’t a lack of desire that keeps us here.
It’s fear.
We settle because we don’t want to face discomfort.
This isn’t a personal weakness.
It’s biology.
Our nervous system is wired to keep us in familiarity & safety.
Choosing growth & joy requires courage.
We stay in relationships that are no longer aligned with our growth or where we’re headed because being alone or face the initial hardship of closure.
We remain in unfulfilling, stressful work or failing businesses because starting over feels daunting.
Many of us avoid the healing work because it requires honesty.
Feeling what we’ve been pushing aside.
Naming patterns we’d rather avoid.
Setting boundaries that feel uncomfortable.
Avoiding discomfort can feel easier short term.
But the cost accumulates.
It shows up as chronic stress, low energy, emotional numbness, or the sense that something is missing.
As getting by instead of living with depth, freedom, & alignment.
Growth asks us to move through discomfort, in service of something more honest, more aligned, more alive.
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What would it feel like to step beyond this discomfort into greater freedom, alignment, & joy, in pursuit of your desires? ❤️✨
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