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Teacher in Conscious Sexuality and Values Based Relationship Frameworks. Intimacy coaching 💚

Seamus has trained at the London School of Tao in the arts of Sexual Kung Fu, Chi Nei Tsang and Taoist Shamanism. An advocate and teacher of deeper intimacy between couples through practical tools like the wheel of consent, conflict management, archetypal roles, understanding your masculine and feminine qualities and values based relationship contracts and agreements. For successful relationships to exist, grow and evolve it initially needs to be grounded in practical communication skills and utilize a shared understanding of values and principles. Setting a strong foundation of self-awareness and defining the criteria of what is an empowered relationship; provides the platform for healing our past-experiences and creates a shared vision of how to move forward collectively in love and respect.

“When the foundational qualities of our relationships are practical, respectful and defined; an invitation is created to lower our armour and defences. Deeper experiences like playfulness, vulnerability and pleasure will naturally appear in new and safer ways on all levels. – Seamus”

Seamus has led men’s groups in Vancouver and a Jade Arrow men’s group in London UK;. Attended advanced Tantra workshops and retreats and has taught Reiki to 100’s of students for over 15 years. Book Seamus today for a 1-on-1 session to assist with change and growth in your relationships and to break past patterns to attract in the right partner for you.

09/13/2025

You may feel connected, but you do not own it.
It is not yours.
Every soul is sovereign.

Each soul is perfect.
Whole.
Free.
Unclaimed.

Even in the deepest soul connection, in love that feels ancient and eternal, no soul belongs to another.

You may walk beside them.
See yourself in their eyes.
Feel their presence echo inside you.

But their light is not yours to hold.
Their path is not yours to shape.
Their being is not yours to possess.

True connection is never about ownership.
It is about resonance.
Recognition.
And the freedom to meet, soul to soul, without cages.

To love someone deeply is not to claim them.
It is to honor their freedom while walking your own.

Never ask someone to kneel at your altar.
And never kneel at anyone else’s.

Pearls Of Wisdom From Me
Art: Pinterest
Source-Erotic Creators

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08/20/2025

Will you hold me, not as one grasps a fragile object to be repaired, but as one embraces a storm in its raw and uncontainable force? Hold me as you would hold the tide, knowing it cannot be tamed, nor should it be. Let me weep, rage, tremble, unravel, without your impulse to gather the pieces, without fixing, without the reflex to weave me into something smoother, quieter, easier. Let me fracture in your presence while you remain the steady witness, unafraid of my jagged edges. For what I seek is not the balm of remedy, but the sacredness of being seen without condition.

Will you stand without the armor of ego, without the restless hum of “Am I enough? Am I doing enough?” and allow yourself to be the cathedral of stillness in which I might collapse? Love me not with the anxious striving of performance, but with the spaciousness of acceptance, where nothing must be earned, nothing must be proven, nothing must be perfected.

Will you shield me, not by barricading the world from my hurt, but by standing between me and my own instinct to disappear behind masks? My veil is a practiced thing, stitched from a thousand quiet fears that I am unworthy of being loved as I am. Tear it not from me. Simply wait until I let it fall, and when it slips from my trembling hands, let your gaze remain steady. Look into me, so deeply that you meet not the polished image but the fractured truth. Look until you feel the tremor of my wounds as though they were your own heartbeat. Look until the darkness spills into light and still, still, you do not turn away.

Will you kiss me, then? Kiss me not as rescue, not as an answer, not as a mask to cover what is difficult. Kiss me as though the purity of your being seeks no disguise. Kiss me without shrinking, without flinching, without bending yourself into the man you think I want. Kiss me raw, unfiltered, unshaped by expectation, as though your lips have known all along that love is not a transaction but an unveiling. And then, will you stay? Not only in the gentleness of dawn, but in the storm of midnight, in the silence when words are broken, in the long ache of uncertainty.
Stay when my voice shakes. Stay when my truth burns. Stay when my eyes plead with you to see what even I fear to touch. Stay, not because it is easy, but because it is true. For love is not measured by the ease of its keeping, but by the courage of its endurance.

Will you trust yourself enough to believe in the immensity of your soul? To know that your essence, unvarnished, untamed, is already sufficient, already luminous, already beyond measure. Trust that within you lies a strength vast enough to hold not only your own shadows but mine. Trust that your presence, unaltered, is the greatest gift you could ever give.

And in this moment, this raw, unpolished, beautifully sacred moment, know that you are cherished not for what you fix, nor for what you prove, but for what you are. Know that I am undone by the immensity of you, and that my gratitude is not the soft sigh of comfort, but the fierce, unyielding hymn of love itself. For here we meet, stripped of illusions, clothed only in truth. Here we meet, and the meeting itself is eternity.

Katie Kamara
*xuality *xuality

08/10/2025

The flame ignites beyond a mere spark, a glimmer that flickers in the dark. Could it be a smoldering ember, stirring old passions long to remember? Attraction defies reason; it isn't smooth but filled with friction, abrasiveness, aggression, and sometimes offensiveness. Yet, something mysterious calls each minute, every second, drawing the mind into distraction while the heart remains irresistibly tethered to its unquestionable desire.

The body longs for the warmth of interaction, seeking the thrill of love's small transgressions, fleeting transactions in a relentless pursuit of satisfaction. In this dance, where light pierces through without a single bend, we find an electromagnetic pull, a thermonuclear chain reaction that leaves no room for abstention. It’s just a pull—a powerful, undeniable pull.

So, one might wonder where this current situation leads. Will it endure, or will it cool? But in the realm of love, where chaos reigns, there are no rules to follow. So why resist? Surrender to the flow, dare to feel it fully—because, in the end, love cares little for logic or restraint. It simply "is."

Katie Kamara
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07/28/2025

The way a man treats you when he’s angry tells you everything you need to know about the kind of love he offers. Love doesn’t disappear the moment frustration arrives. Respect doesn’t vanish when emotions rise. A man who truly cares will still choose his words carefully, even when he’s upset. He’ll take space if he needs it, but he won’t tear you down in the process. He won’t slam doors, say things to hurt you, or punish you with silence. Instead, he’ll protect you even when he's hurting, because he knows anger is temporary, but damage from careless words can linger forever.

See, anybody can be sweet when things are easy. But the real test of a man’s character comes when things get hard… when you disagree, when emotions run high, when you're both at your edge. That’s when his true nature steps forward. If his first instinct is to hurt you, to belittle you, to manipulate you or shut you out, that’s not love. That’s control. That’s ego. That’s a man who hasn’t learned how to handle his own emotions without spilling them onto you.

Don’t let anyone convince you that disrespect is part of passion. Don’t let the apology that follows become the reason you excuse the damage. “He was just mad” isn’t a free pass to insult you, ignore your feelings, or make you question your worth. That’s not intensity… that’s immaturity. That’s not love… that’s a red flag dressed in a wounded ego.

The truth is, a man who truly values you will still love you through his anger. He’ll take a breath instead of breaking your spirit. He’ll step back to protect the peace between you, not to create distance. He’ll choose understanding over dominance. And if he can’t do that, he’s not ready for the kind of love you’re offering.

So pay attention. Not to how he treats you when things are good, but to how he reacts when things get tough. That’s where the truth lives.

~ Siiarly min
Source-Empower Wholeness Intimac
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07/27/2025

Brother, have you ever experienced this?

You are lying in bed next to her. You want to feel her, but the space between you might as well be an ocean. You turn toward her, hoping for a smile, a loving word, her hand in yours, anything to feel close again, but she’s facing the wall, lost in her own world.

It’s worse than anger or frustration. It’s emptiness. That punch in your gut when you realize the woman you love feels miles away, even when she’s right there.

Most guys have been here at some point.

You question what went wrong. Why doesn’t she want to be touched by you anymore, not even a hug, a kiss?

Maybe you think it’s about a lack of s3x, but it’s deeper than that. It’s about feeling wanted, valued, chosen, like you’re still her man. When that fades, it’s easy to feel like you’re just taking up space.

In general, men often seem to need s3x as a way to feel close and connected, while women often need emotional intimacy and closeness in place first before they even feel like getting physical.

It can turn into a bit of a loop: men feeling disconnected without the physical side, and women needing that deeper bond to get there.

When that happens, many guys react by doing more, overachieving, tiptoeing around her every need, trying to constantly please her, or by disappearing altogether.

However, neither approach bridges the gap. The more you push or the more you withdraw, the wider the gap grows.

People will tell you this is normal, that relationships just settle into this quiet routine. Don’t buy it, my man. You’re not crazy for wanting a real bond, intimacy, physical closeness, and s3x instead of only a shared address.

And here’s the truth: she’s mostly not shutting you out to hurt you, with some exceptions. She might be running on fumes, overwhelmed by life, stuck in her head, or feeling like no one’s really got her back.

When she’s in that place, you reaching out for physical closeness can feel like noise she can’t handle, like another to-do on her list.

Most women shut down their connection to you when they do not feel truly met and heard in the relationship, or when they are overwhelmed. Men need to understand that they can not bypass those feelings and jump straight to ‘touch’.

We have to create a space for women to open up through deep listening and empathetic pathways, so that she can come home in her body again. Creating the intentional space to truly meet your woman will encourage more intimacy and will help her to open up.

So brother, put your phone down, look her in the eye, and ask a question. Not “What’s wrong?” or “Can I help?”

Try something simple, like: “What’s been on your mind lately?” Don’t interrupt. Don’t jump in with solutions. Just hear her out, let her unload whatever has been piling up.

Nod, repeat a piece of what she says so she knows you’re with her. It’s not about playing her therapist. It’s about proving she’s not alone in this.

Her walls probably will not crumble immediately, but you will see a difference.

It might take time before she lets you rest your hand on her knee again. The first touch might not immediately be electric or passionate. Try to see it simply as permission. Permission for you to be close, and for her to be seen.

Closeness isn’t earned with grand gestures. It’s built in the silence between sentences, in the trust that you won’t vanish when she shows the parts of herself that ache.

That’s when she starts to remember why she opened the door to you in the first place, and you remember why you knocked.

Bas Waijers Baumann

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07/26/2025

True intimacy is not just about being physically close to someone—it’s about being seen, understood, and deeply connected on an emotional level. In Emotional Intimacy, Robert Augustus Masters explores the depths of emotional awareness, vulnerability, and healing. He emphasizes that emotional intimacy is not about avoiding discomfort but about embracing it with courage, authenticity, and compassion.

Masters guides us through the inner work required to cultivate genuine relationships—with ourselves and others—by confronting our fears, conditioning, and emotional blind spots. He challenges the reader to go beyond surface-level interactions and create meaningful bonds rooted in self-awareness, trust, and emotional maturity.

This book is a transformative guide for anyone seeking deeper, more fulfilling relationships by developing the capacity to be truly present, vulnerable, and connected.

Here are lessons from the book:
1. True Intimacy Requires Emotional Presence
Being emotionally present means fully experiencing and expressing your emotions in the moment, without suppression or distraction. True intimacy flourishes when we allow ourselves to be seen as we truly are.

2. Vulnerability is Strength, Not Weakness
Many people fear vulnerability because they associate it with weakness. However, being vulnerable—openly expressing fears, desires, and insecurities—builds trust and deepens relationships.

3. Emotional Avoidance Blocks Intimacy
When we suppress difficult emotions or avoid deep conversations, we create distance in our relationships. Facing emotions, even the painful ones, is key to fostering true connection.

4. Self-Intimacy is the Foundation of Relationship Intimacy
Before we can form deep connections with others, we must first cultivate a deep understanding and acceptance of ourselves. Emotional intimacy begins with self-awareness and self-compassion.

5. Healing Old Wounds Creates Space for Love
Unresolved emotional wounds from childhood or past relationships can sabotage intimacy. Acknowledging and healing these wounds allows us to love and connect more freely.

6. Healthy Boundaries Strengthen Relationships
Emotional intimacy does not mean losing yourself in another person. Setting and respecting boundaries ensures that intimacy is built on mutual respect and emotional safety.

7. Shame and Fear Must Be Acknowledged, Not Hidden
Shame and fear thrive in secrecy. When we courageously express our fears and insecurities, we break their power and create opportunities for deeper understanding and connection.

8. Deep Listening is an Act of Love
Listening with presence—without interrupting, judging, or mentally preparing a response—allows us to truly understand and validate our partner’s emotions. This is the foundation of emotional intimacy.

9. Conflict Can Be a Pathway to Deeper Connection
Disagreements are not threats to intimacy; they are opportunities for growth. Approaching conflict with curiosity and a willingness to understand creates stronger emotional bonds.

10. Love is a Practice, Not Just a Feeling
Sustaining emotional intimacy requires ongoing effort, patience, and a commitment to emotional honesty. Love is not just about how we feel—it’s about how we show up for ourselves and others, even when it’s difficult.

By embracing emotional intimacy, Emotional Intimacy teaches us that the deepest connections are built not through perfection, but through authenticity, courage, and a willingness to be seen and to see others fully."

~Robert Augustus Masters
Source-Erotic Creators
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07/23/2025

To stay in the river of love, you must trust the current, even though you don’t know where it takes you. You have to surrender, to be okay with not knowing. Love happens only now in this moment.

This is the river. It is always moving, never static. It requires us only to be present, aware, and willing. You cannot anticipate what love will need or know how you will meet that need any more than you can anticipate and know how to meet your own needs. Life is in constant motion. Needs are perpetually shifting and changing.

The river is always unpredictable. Sometimes, it flows peacefully in the moonlight. And sometimes, the wind picks up, and waves dance madly, catching the sunlight as they hit the rocks, spawning countless rainbows.

Love is also unpredictable.

Do you think you can know what you need or what love needs? No, it is not possible, any more than it is possible for the river to stay calm when the wind picks up. All is energy. All is movement. All is surrender.

Love needs this freedom and devotion in every moment or its dance will end. Resist the movement of water and wind, when love comes as a gift and you will emerge from the river tired and bruised. Such is the likely end of any love in which the lovers attempt to direct or take control.

So we must learn to breathe now as we swim even though our heads occasionally go under water. We must learn to blow the water out of our mouths and catch our breath just in time. We must learn how to handle the unexpected challenges and the moments when we are pushed beyond our comfort zone.

True lovers learn to do the dance that love asks them to do, because they know that they have no choice. They cannot stop their love any more than they could begin it.

Love is and will always be a mystery.

We do not know how it comes and goes. Beginnings and endings - if they exist at all - are not up to us. Some people do not understand.

They think they get to say “Yes” or “No” to the call of love.
They are completely deluded.

No one who has ever loved deeply and truly has ever had such a choice.

Katie Kamara
Art: Andrew Atroshenko Artgerm and Greg Rutkowski
Source -Erotic Creators
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07/18/2025

The Real Power Couples

The real power couples aren’t the ones constantly parading their wealth, flaunting luxury, or chasing the spotlight of status. No, the true strength lies in those quiet, resilient pairs who hold each other close when life feels unbearably heavy—those who stand together in silence, in storms, in struggle, choosing each other over and over again, without the need for applause.

It’s never about who makes more money, who’s more successful, or who can gift the grandest things. It’s about who gives more love, who listens with their whole heart, who stays when everything else seems to be falling apart. It’s about the ones who choose loyalty when temptation knocks, who prioritize presence over hollow promises, and who show effort when excuses would’ve been easier.

Real power is built in the trenches—during sleepless nights, in whispered reassurances, in the quiet strength of holding hands while the world throws its worst at you. It’s in two people who refuse to fight against each other, and instead, fight the world together—with faith, with forgiveness, with unshakable commitment.

These couples may not post perfect photos on social media. But they live through messy days and unfiltered moments with a kind of devotion that doesn’t waver. They weather storms not because their love is untouched by hardship, but because it is rooted in something deeper—trust, understanding, and a love that heals rather than hurts.

Because at the end of the day, what good is success if you come home to silence? What’s the point of luxury if your heart is left starving for connection?

The real power lies in two souls who feel like home to each other. In the kind of love where arguments don’t turn into ultimatums. Where flaws aren’t dealbreakers, but reminders of humanity. Where they don’t just stay because it’s convenient—but because no other place, no other person, no other life feels more right.

That’s real power. That’s real love. That’s what lasts.

~Classy
Art: same
Source-Erotic Creators
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07/17/2025

Man is the most elevated of creatures,
Woman the most sublime of ideals.

God made for man a throne; for woman an altar. The throne exalts, the altar sanctifies.

Man is the brain, Woman, the heart.
The brain creates light, the heart, love.

Light engenders, love resurrects.
Because of reason, Man is strong,

Because of tears, Woman is invincible.
Reason is convincing, tears, moving.

Man is capable of all heroism,
Woman of all martyrdom.

Heroism ennobles, martyrdom sublimates.

Man has supremacy,
Woman, preference.

Supremacy is strength, preference is the right.

Man is a genius,
Woman, an angel.

Genius is immeasurable, the angel indefinable. The aspiration of man is supreme glory.

The aspiration of woman is extreme virtue.
Glory creates all that is great; virtue, all that is divine.

Man is a code,
Woman a gospel.

A code corrects; the gospel perfects.

Man thinks,
Woman dreams.

To think is to have a worm in the brain, to dream is to have a halo on the brow.

Man is an ocean,
Woman a lake.

The ocean has the adorning pearl, the lake, dazzling poetry.

Man is the flying eagle,
Woman, the singing nightingale.

To fly is to conquer space.
To sing is to conquer the soul.

Man is a temple,
Woman a shrine.

Before the temple we discover ourselves,
before the shrine we kneel.

In short, man is found where earth finishes,
Woman where heaven begins.

—Victor Hugo, “Man and Woman"
Art: Takishi
Source -Erotic Creators
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07/15/2025

MEN…THE WOMAN YOU CHOOSE IS A REFLECTION OF WHO YOU ARE WILLING TO BECOME 🔥♥️

At every pivotal moment in your life, a Woman appears…

Sometimes as a muse…
Sometimes as a mirror…
Sometimes as a test from the Gods.

But the quality of Woman you attract..and more importantly, the quality of Woman you choose…reveals everything about where you are in your Masculine development.

There are three stages in a Man’s evolution of choosing a partner…

Stage One…The Boy’s Choice
You choose based on beauty, excitement, and s*xual charge.
You’re pulled by curves… captivated by chemistry… drunk on potential.
It’s the realm of lust and play and ego inflation.
She makes you feel alive..but only temporarily.

You’ll call it love, but it’s infatuation.
You’ll say she’s “the one,” but you haven’t even met your own Soul yet.
This stage is not wrong… but stay too long, and it turns your being to ash.

This is the playground of the undisciplined Masculine

Stage Two…The Equal’s Choice
You choose based on compatibility.
Shared values. Similar goals. A “good match.”
She’s kind… trustworthy… stable.
You’re walking the same path.
You build a life together like business partners co-founding a shared future.

The s*x may not be wild, but the spreadsheets balance.

This is where most modern relationships get stuck…in balance, but without polarity.
You’re “happy”… but uninspired.
You’re “safe”… but half-asleep.

Stage Three…The Sacred Choice
This is the realm of the Warrior . The Sage. The Man who has died before.
The Man whose Soul has been carved by loss, forged in fire, and resurrected in Truth

At this stage, you choose not from your wounds or wants…
You choose from your Devotion .
You choose a Woman who doesn’t just turn you on…she turns you inward.
A Woman who calls your highest self to the frontlines.

She challenges your comfort.
She won’t let you shrink.
She demands your fullness…not with her words, but with her being.

She is your divine mirror.
She awakens your Mission.
And you, in turn, do not “love” her casually…
You become the container through which the Divine penetrates the world.

In Stage One, you play with fire…
In Stage Two, you manage warmth…
In Stage Three, you become the fire.

But here’s the razor edge…

If you’re still choosing like a Stage One boy in a Stage Three Man’s body, you will suffer.
If you want Sacred Union, but act from unresolved lust, you’ll confuse pleasure for Purpose.
If you attract a Woman who’s ready to go deep, but you’re still entertaining distractions, you will lose her…and yourself.

So Brother , ask yourself…
Are you choosing her with your c**k, your convenience… or your Consecration ?

Are you trying to get something from her… or give your deepest gift?

Are you prepared to meet a Woman who evolves your Soul…and not run when she actually does?

If not, be honest.
If yes, do the inner work to become the Man worthy of her Heart.

This is not about being perfect…
This is about being Real.

Clear. Present. Rooted in Truth.

And most of all…
Honour The Goddess
Do not use her to fill your emptiness.
See her as the Sacred Mirror she is.
And when she opens to you….Bow

Because that love… that openness… that Feminine radiance…
… is not something you earn.
It’s something you meet with honour and rise to hold.

Choose as the Man you are destined to become.
Choose from your Depth, not your distraction.
Choose the Woman who burns your mask off and reveals your Soul.

Your evolution depends on it.

Inspired by my years of study, cultivation, and practice with my mentor and master teacher, David Deida.

Satyen Raja
Art: FreePik
Source-Empower Wholeness Intimacy
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07/09/2025

PARASYMPATHETIC LO******NG

There are two pathways possible when entering into the realms of erotic arousal.

Broadly the main pathway indulged and promoted by most of the world is what I would call sympathetic.

You know it.

Hot lustful kissing turning into clothes ripping, hard thrusting, full friction, bed shaking and collapse in a sweaty mess.

It always amazes me how in movies and shows characters go from that first kiss to ripping each others clothes off, with the cliched knock something off a table and/or slam against a wall, in like 15 seconds.

Granted it is hot.

It can cause that little stir inside, a little pelvic rock of pleasure and anticipation.

The thing about this pathway of lo******ng, however, is that it requires intensity.

High levels of excitation are required to generate the blood flow necessary for full engorgement and moistening.

Hence the clothes ripping, grabbing, thrusting nature of it.

Hence why addiction to the seeming delights of the adult entertainment industry is such a big problem for many men.

Because, like any thrill seeker… you always need more.

More intensity. More excitement. More heat.

It’s why lo******ng can be so passionate at the beginning of a relationship and then lead to diminishment of desire over time.

It’s hard to continue to generate an ever increasing supply of intensity… especially when you throw kids, jobs, financial stress, familiarity and all the other normal things of life into the mix.

The other pathway, parasympathetic arousal, is fuelled by an entirely different kind of energy.

Safety.

This is the kind of arousal that occurs when you feel so safe, so secure, so stable that your heart opens, your body relaxes, you can just be you in all your beauty and uniqueness.

Arousal from this place is effortless.

It doesn’t require intensity, excitement, friction.

This is the kind of arousal that occurs when your partner smiles at you with loving eyes, and you know they are truly there for you, and you are safe and you don’t have to do anything special to be wanted and loved and then… so naturally, so easily… your body is turned on.

I’ve found that the more safety I develop both in myself and my relationship, the easier it is to find my arousal.

There is no striving. No effort. No need to create any special conditions.

This isn’t “let’s light candles, stare into each others eyes for an inordinate amount of time with the requisite ambient music in the background for long full body massages before special ta***ic lo******ng”.

I mean sure, that’s nice and I’m all for it sometimes when there is time.

Yet this is much simpler.

It’s simply a body that responds to safety as the biggest turn-on.

We can entirely rewire the erotic nature of our nervous system.

In my opinion it’s worth it.

More lo******ng.
More safety.
More love.

~Damien Bohler
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