10/18/2025
Anyone else get super frustrated when your plans get thwarted by a cold or flu??? 🙋♀️🙋♀️🙋♀️
Sometimes, when we push ourselves beyond our capacity for too long, our bodies force us into time out. And in a culture that values productivity over rest, we often don’t recognize when we may be overextending ourselves physically, emotionally, mentally or energetically. And as a therapist, this is something I explain to my clients on the regular.
Full disclosure time: I’m just as vulnerable to overextending myself even though I know better, and yes, it catches up to me. My immune system made the choice for me after a busy month, putting the brakes on another busy weekend ahead. What’s my body telling me? Biologically it’s telling me that my immune system is low because my system is stressed and I haven’t been recharging my battery enough. On many other levels, it’s telling me I need to rest, to nourish myself and to let others look after me while I regenerate.
As someone who’s always on the go, it’s frustrating to get knocked down. But i’ve learned over the years that it’s the Universe trying to tell me to pay attention to something. So I surrender. Surrender to letting myself rest, to puppy cuddles, books and ginger lemon tea. And to honoring myself and what I need instead of pushing myself to meet any other expectations. Because I know I need to care about myself as much as I care for others.
So the next time you start coming down with a cold or flu, take it as a sign that you need some rest and deserve the time out ❤️✨