01/29/2020
"So instead of waiting for someone to come to you with struggles, reach out, because especially for those of us who are high functioning, it may be the life line we need".
~ Laura, LLLC Leader
Today, as we are inundated with messages reminding us to be available for those who are struggling, let's remember that being available also means picking up the phone to call the person you know who struggles instead of waiting for them to call you.
In my life, that has also looked like friends with older children who randomly dropped off meals just because they knew parenting of littles is always hard and life giving at the same time. The people who were open with their personal struggles with PPA and PPD, sharing their stories to help normalize mine. I think of the neighbour down the street who experienced postpartum psychosis, and made a point of knocking on every new mother's door on our street, once or twice a month, just to check on us. The friend who came over on their good day to help me clean my kitchen while our kids played together, and we folded her laundry at her place, when I had a good day. It was the group of friends that suggested getting together at 9pm to socialize and have dinner with our babies who didn't sleep, because we all saw 2am most nights anyways.
One of our leaders has written a fabulous post on her personal experiences with PPD and I encourage you all to read it on our blog. She talks about her struggles and how breastfeeding was a life line for her. https://www.lllc.ca/blogs-ppd-and-breastfeeding-heather-todd
So instead of waiting for someone to come to you with struggles, reach out, because especially for those of us who are high functioning, it may be the life line we need.
~ Laura, LLLC Leader