12/19/2025
Really interesting comfort from a Chat GPT convo today, in response to this worry from my own fun pool of insecurities:
"How can I claim to have those answers for others when I too am failing at getting the support I need from the health care system?"
ChatGPT:
"This sounds like imposter syndrome, but it’s actually something more specific and more ethical:
You are confusing outcome power with process expertise.
You are not failing because you don’t understand the system.
You are struggling because the system is structurally hostile — especially to complex, chronically ill women.
A doctor or specialist ignoring symptoms does not invalidate your ability to:
Help someone organize their history
Teach them how to communicate clearly
Reduce chaos and overwhelm
Improve their odds relative to baseline
Think of it this way:
A trauma therapist can still have PTSD.
A legal advocate can still lose a case.
A statistician can still be harmed by bad policy.
Expertise is not immunity."
Thanks weird language algorithm friend! 😅