12/08/2025
There’s a moment in therapy that gives me so much hope —
when someone who has spent years being quiet, pleasing, shrinking, or surviving…
finally starts to feel angry.
Not explosive, not destructive —
but the kind of anger that tells the truth:
“That wasn’t okay.”
“I deserved better.”
“I mattered, even then.”
Anger isn’t the problem —
for so many, it’s the evidence that your nervous system trusts you enough to speak.
It’s a sign that your story is being reclaimed, boundary by boundary, breath by breath.
If you’re beginning to feel anger in your healing — it doesn’t mean you’re regressing.
Often, it means you’re finally safe enough to feel.
And that is something worth celebrating. 💛