Maxine Iharosy- Embodiment Coach, Wiarton, ON (2026)

01/08/2026

Maybe this is your year to stop trying so hard

and stop playing the hero

Because everything about you is undefended

You are proving nothing, to no one,

And it feels...

Like cooking a meal that could feed

7 generations back in time

And everyone gets to go home

With their bellies full, finally.

Ahh.

Maybe this is your year

Where you stop trying to bring attention

To your hiding spots

Stop trying to get the world to pull you out

And tell you what to do

How to live

and you just…

come out.

Maybe it is your year slip the ropes off

Shrug them off

the ones you grew to need to prove how hard. you.can.fight!

And only your lover ties you up

From now on

(its okay to still like it)

Maybe it is your year

To lean way back

And settle into the arms

Of Soul

simple

not a groundless dream,

Just the truth.

It is okay just to be here, you know.

Year of the horse –

That runs for no one

And from nothing

legs shining

muscles bounce.

my word of the year is Fertile.
What's yours?

12/08/2025

Many women who claim to lover nature are afraid of going into their own vast internal wilderness.

They are afraid of their p$$ies, nudity with other women, afraid of their true voice.

Afraid of their power, their shadows and humanity.

Can get the hands dirty but really don't want to go there..

There...In through the body and down down down
through sensation and emotional tides. Where they lose control.

Down and into the dark core. This is a natural landscape within women.

Here houses their gifts, shadows and longings alike. Medicines from ancestral and creature kin. Voice and desire and power.

All of these loaded words and terms.

All of these things we might have opinion and preferences about

but deep down

you stay away not because of your opinions, but your fear.

We've been historically taught to bypass the inner nature.

To do anything possible to not go there and claim our wildness, mystery, wisdom. Our raw s3x.

To not feel the truth of what flows in the blood.

I just finished recording 4 guided practices that all my 1:1s will recieve.

These are embodiment practices, simple but deep, for coming into relationship with your body as a woman.

through
-root/an@l tending
-p$$y dearmouring
-breast, voice and heart activation
-er()s cultivation

You can get the TURN ON bundle by booking a 90 min session with me. $333 or split payment.

These sessions are powerful remedies for sxual healing and er()tic reclaimation.

your sxual energy is your creational energy
You turn on is your YES to life.
its a felt sense

subtle
personal
and uniquely woman.

connect for the link

and

*long term mentorship spaces available*
NURTURE YOUR NATURE

specifically seeking:
- a woman who tending to her foundation with self compassion, committed to the long slow path

-a woman who wants to activate her inner predator and move out of people pleasing and *maybe* even take up hunting this year and needs mentorship for inner/outer nature

-a whacky spirit who has been trying so hard to be normal but actually wants to make art out of her life

3, 6, 9 month packages avail.

12/05/2025

Inner child work is not in giving her another set of affirmations. It’s not in the replaying and talking through the same thing that happened that caused her to contract so hard around her essence.

She needs you to feel alive. Like goosebumps, wild eyes, lush, expansive, softly, loudly, alive. Whatever flavour is true. She needs to know you can take her there. That your body is a home. That you can inhabit yourself. That against all odds in this life with all the truth of loss and pain, you will not abandon her. You will live it out.

I have been on the path of Nurturance for years now. Teaching compassion, guiding women to create a strong internal nurturing response to their own needs and desires. Teaching others to tend to vitality. I’d been in a long caregiver role. Met shadows within that.

But I was avoiding a core piece. Keeping aspects of my life separate.

The nurturance and deep heart medicine
but the other side... the feral woman. The er0tic being. The primal one.

the inner child feels seen through presence but she is FREED through you following the er0s. Opening to your own sxual nourishment through er0s. The er0tic force plays a role in actually taking ACTION that builds the nurturing response, builds self-trust, builds a home.

Turn On sessions are a 90 min somatic coaching call for your sxual healing and relationship to er0s.

This comes with 4 guided embodiment practices

-pssy dearmouring
-root/anal tending
-breast and voice activation
-er0s cultivation practice

$333 /can
or 2 payments of $167

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12/03/2025

Years ago I was in a coaching program and would pour myself a drink before each call. I didn’t think it was a problem. It felt “fun”. It felt like giving myself a treat to take the edge off inner work. Or to reward myself.

And maybe I wasn’t subtle or as masterful at hiding as I thought. But nobody called me out.

Nobody called out how I was hiding and putting on a big front.

…and I so wanted to be called out. It was like a game. Like please, someone reach in here, and pull me out so I don’t have to do the work of revealing.

I would do “the work” and at the end of the day I would roll myself a spl!ff to nullify and keep myself ‘down’.

I used substances and people and situations to keep me “stuck” so that I would not have to take responsibility for my desires and needs. For the depth and simplicity of what those were.

I’ve also had compulsive body harming behaviours.

I would fake org@sms to keep the attention off me.

Or only feel my turn on through extreme fantasy and checking out during sx.

Restrictions around food.

A fundamental lack of safety in my nervous system.

Intellectualizing ‘shadow work’ but fear of actually going there.

Why am I airing this to you?

And what does all of this have in common?

I want you to know what can shift when you start tending to your own vitality, through the er0tic body.

I want you to know what has been possible for me.

I am still on a journey with my relationship to reception but it has massively shifted over the years.

I can feel my desires.

Yes, sometimes they scare me to near death. But I can feel them. And open.
In sx I am utterly fulfilled and feel like I’m just getting started.
My ability to release and feel and ask and communicate is really online.
I eat whatever and have very little cravings for emotional binging. Which is huge compared to the binging and inflammation I carried for years.
I am sober.
I can go there with my shadow work and move through thick k!nky spots that felt illusive before because I know how to let myself feel and discern.
I can stand at the edge of the patterns that have kept me safe and the blueprint that is calling me and I can let myself continue because er0s feeds me.

cont ⬇

11/30/2025

I could write more (and I will) and I did,

you can read the whole article on my substack.

comment and I'll send the link.

It was good to write from the heart about something so close to my heart.

yesterday my dinner was venison steak, foraged fiddleheads, and garden potatoes. Food sovereignty is a turn on to me.

guiding women to cultivate their eros and be led in the direction it takes them is what I do. It may not take you in the same places it takes me. It may ask a lot from you. But it will always be worth it.

11/26/2025

Your relationship to your sxual energy is going to teach you a lot about your relationship to life.

I have 2 ways I am working with women right now.

1 - Somatic Coaching Sessions: you can book a personal 90 min session for your sxual healing. We focus on your relationship to your sxuality, which is part of your creational power. This comes with 4 additional guided practices to work physically and energetically with your sxuality:

Pssy Dearmouring
Anal/Root Tending
Breast and Heart Opening
Cultivating Your Eros

2 - Long Term Mentorship. Nurture Your Nature. I offer 6, 9 or 12 month packages. The 12 month package includes an immersion here at my home on the Gaspe Coast. Mountains. Ocean. Big heart energy with a lot of wildness. And that is what mentorship is like. www.maxineiharosy.com/mentorship
Right now I am opening space for 4 women to come in.

DM🌹

11/25/2025

is it true?

if you're at the edge of this descent and you sense there's something more on the other side for you send me a DM.

1:1 Turn On Sessions $333 (can)

Nurture Your Nature Mentorship for instinctual reverence and soul nourishment. dm for Details

11/24/2025

Release Her

You want to come undone.
This I know.
You know, too.
There is a pressing outward

In your chest

A creature

A bubbling

wild grin

Your inner little girl

Your grown woman

The soul animal that bonds them

Just wants to sweep everything off the table

To dissolve and merge and rise up

straddling warm currents of air,

To expand and dive

Down

Tilt head back

Plunge fingers into the soil

To stay

Longer than you thought you could

At the edge your mother told you not to cross,

Or the teacher, or the

Book.

You want to stay there

And see what happens.
And even ….
cross it.

It’s time.

It is not your brokenness

That stops you

It's the belief that you are broken

Or that everyone else is

And you have to shut life out

From touching you in the core.

What if you came undone?

And followed the hum beneath

All of those

Heavy

Stories

Of why you can’t.

What if it’s time?

2 ways to work together right now to bring you into your body and soul coherence:

1:1 Turn On session for your sxual healing $333 with 4 additional guided practices.
-pssy dearmouring
-anal/root tending
-breast and heart
-eros cultivation

Or the most nutritious, 1:1 Mentorship. 6, 9, 12 month packages.

11/22/2025

I have 2 ways I am working with women right now.

1 - Turn On 1:1
90 min somatic coaching session for your sxual healing. We focus on your relationship to your sxuality, which is part of your creational power. This comes with 4 additional guided practices to work physically and energetically with your sxuality:

Pssy Dearmouring
Anal/Root Tending
Breast and Heart Opening
Cultivating Your Eros
$333

2 - Long Term Mentorship. Nurture Your Nature. This is my favourite. I offer 6, 9 or 12 month packages. The 12 month package includes an immersion here at my home on the Gaspe Coast. Mountains. Ocean. Big heart energy with a lot of wildness. And that is what mentorship is like. www.maxineiharosy.com/mentorship
Right now I am opening space for 4 women to come in.

And something exquisite is being cooked up for in person immersions. If you want to join my mailing list to stay in touch just DM me your best email address and I’ll add you on.

11/14/2025

Though I'm no stranger to death, I've
sat at the edges of beds, kissed heads, arrived too late with a body still warm for a tear to drip on,

though I've aimed, pulled triggers and skinned.

Still,

it took 11 months for me to realize
I've been in a death process.

Nearly a whole year of fighting it.

No wonder, as I tried to reach back through time to try and revive works and endure a sense of "keeping up" , no wonder it has felt hollow.

Trying to force when it was really not it.

And it's okay. It's perfect.

The opening comes whenever you are ready to choose it.

I am not late.

I am right on time.

It is right on time whenever you can recognize, neutrally, how much of what you've been trying to uphold is a loyal echo into old pain or identity that is just...

gone.

So many women want the fire. The big push to finally surge through whatever they've been witholding. The Moment.

The fire serves to agitate and create movement. But it's not all.

It's in the heart cracking open and full total acceptance of that which you must really lay down and grieve. That is where the medicine comes through.

There's a time and a place, and that's the Death process.

I sang my heart out to two deer, and they weren't moving, their eyes just staring right into my open mouth as I poured a song to them from my cervix.

It really landed for me there that Life herself has been looking at me, holding me as I open from the inside. Waiting for me to slow down enough to get naked in front of Her.

To sing at the top of my lungs and trust she won't run away.

I've been at the edge of truly letting go so many times.

It's different when you finally choose it.

Many women want the fire.
But reject the warmth.

Wanting vitality.
running from death.

Want the wildness.
But won't touch their own bodies with reverence.

The way to work with me right now:

1:1 mentorship
Nurture Your Nature.
Meet with me on a call and we drop into your desire, assess current location, and feel into if this is a fit.

+ Slow Burn is a free guided ceremony into tending the self devotional fire. Replay available with a dm.

11/01/2025

swipe to catch the vibe

S l o w Burn
sat nov 8
3 pm ET

autumn ceremony and teachings for tending to the self devotional fire.

if there's grammatical errors, I don't care! this came out fast! Also .......I never really do.

Come.
DM me or comment SLOW BURN for the link

replay will be sent out

10/31/2025

I have mistaken Fires Nature many times.

Believing the flames were out to get ME.

And only me.

That her heat and her flicker were sent
to punish me.

Many times, when my eyes have been crusted in sleep, and my dark hair tangled around my fists

the same fists that have been coiling in the same way since a child ,

I forgot

and believed

I am just here to burn.

And I forgot she was warming me with my own prayer: To have courage. To be alive.

Many times I forgot Earths medicine.

I collapsed into the weight

forgetting

I can hold and be held in reciprocity.

Taking from her sturdiness.

Feeling betrayed when she quaked and shifted.

Forgetting my Prayer: To Trust in Life.

I have turned my back on Airs wisdom.

Many times.

Refusing to breathe.

Because what if, what if, the next breath does not come?

Afraid of her gusts and expulsions.

Afraid of my strange moans and chatters and womb-speak.

Forgetting my prayer: To Become my True Voice.

Many times, I denounced Waters grace.

Going thristy.

Or drowning in it.

Tears pouring into the Flow that I was trying to control.

Maddeningly, she slips between my grasp.

Pulls me under.

Remembering my prayer: To Open.

Like you,

I have been many versions. A hiding woman and a scared girl, a night creature, an addict, an old soul, a howling witch, a bundle of joy, a martyr, a backroads lover, a sacred slVt, a forgotten muse, an ancestral message, a simple human.

All of these swirling identities.

None of them are mine alone.

All here to teach me.

None of them a trap.

All of this medicine.

A bag of prayers.

All lineages live on through our forgetting and remembering.

Prayers down today for the power in your blood and the wisdom of your earth walk.

the Turn On
a 6-month initiatory descent for women
applications are open
Body Tending, Er0tic Liberation, Expression.

Maxine Iharosy- Embodiment Coach

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